When your lover ejaculates in you, do you feel that is the same as peeing inside of you? Even though issued from the same phallus, there is a great difference biologically and emotionally between those two fluids.Oh really? And maybe Mr. All Knowing Female Expert Scientist can explain to us dumbass providers what that difference is..as you said, they are both bodily fluids that come from the penis."Oh what a beautiful painting, I want to soil it". NOT OK with ME. Sir.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
Sweet Heather, I never addressed providers, dumbass or otherwise, I have only so far addressed you and your statements. Don't try to make this about other providers besides you. I see your point of view now. Semen and urine both come from the penis and are distasteful. You do not want urine on your face or vagina. You do not want semen on your face, but your vagina is deserving of this fluid that comes from the same penis as urine does. Got it. Also, I never said it should be OK with you.
If youand the majority of providers BTW fail to see that difference and the accompanying acts, then I fully understand why you would imply that OP is dumbI never called her "dumb", did I. Don't put inflammatory words in my mouth. Sir.
First, if you are going to speak for the majority of providers, I would like you to take a poll of ALL providers that you are representing a majority of. That is presumptuous of you to speak for a majority without them knowing you speak for them. In fact, your opinion has been in the minority among providers in this thread.
I never said you called her dumb. I said you implied she is dumb by your statement "Some girls will fall for anything, it seems..." If that is not what you meant by that statement, and I misunderstood, please explain what you meant by the statement.
Because something does not fall inside your box defining nice, good, erotic, sensual, does not mean it might not float another's boat. That's all well and good, as long as gents don't feel that cumming-or peeing-or shitting-on a providers face is widely acceptable by the MAINSTREAM providers that still have self respect and self esteem...intact.
I don't think there was any mention or attempt by anyone to sway "mainstream" perception or expectation in this thread. Also, I think you just implied that providers that allow COF (along with the other activities you listed) don't have their self respect and self esteem intact. Is this true?
I would not flaunt your closed mind as reason for elitism.I have an open mind, dear..after all, I'm a PROVIDER. Elitism?? Nice try at making me appear Holier Than Thou. I'm just a girl that enjoys bringing GFE pleasure to guys that seek it out. I am NOT however, cool with bounderies being pushed, and disrespectful acts being paraded as "common" and "acceptable"
I would disagree that you have an open mind, but that's a pointless discussion since we don't have the proper environment to discuss that point. BTW, being a provider doesn't guarantee that you have an open mind, just like being a hobbyist doesn't. I don't have to try or attempt to make you appear anything, dear.
It's fine if you don't like your boundaries pushed, none of us have suggested pushing your boundaries. Others, however, sometimes enjoy it. As for what you see as disrespectful acts being paraded as common or acceptable, any act between two consenting adults is acceptable. Common? Expected? Any mention of COF was framed with either expressing desire to do so or asking before doing it.
The OP said that she once felt that COF was "degrading", but now doesn't. OK, I get that. But can we all agree that COF is a tad bit disrespectful?
No. It CAN be disrespectful, but it does not have to be.
Think of the act of shooting a gun at someone - would you agree that this is a malicious act?
What if it was done out of mercy and at the request of the person being shot? I think you are labeling behavior without understanding intent.
OK, then WHY WHY WHY would any provider allow even the teensy weensy bit of disrespect be a part of her "job" description?
PLEASE explain.
You shouldn't, and no one here suggested you do so.
As for why any provider MIGHT do so - if she enjoys it. Some people are into humiliation, pain, degradation. Again, if both parties are consenting, I am fine with it.
Because the MAJORITY of providers do NOT allow disrespect to be a part-even the tiniest part-of their "job", for want of a better word.
I-and the MAJORITY-of providers- make plenty of money-as much as we wish-WITHOUT letting men degrade-excuse me, "disrepect"-us,AT ALL.
Why do things that you find distasteful that you don't need to do??????
Again, please do not speak for others unless you have taken a valid poll and/or were voted/given authority to speak for the group.
I'm glad that you and (apparently) majority of providers make plenty of money without allowing men to degrade or disrespect you. No one here is trying to talk you into this.
In fact, until you made an appearance in this thread, everyone expressed their opinions and preferences without implying opinions other than yours can only be held by women who are less than intelligent or damaged self-esteem.
I can see allowing your SO, who you are madly in love with, do things out of the ordinary since he is your SO and you love him. But a Fred Flintstone looking stranger that gives you money? That you don't HAVE to do? And you would stil make money if you didn't?
Would it make a difference if your client didn't look like Fred Flintstone, or do all your clients look like Fred Flintstone?
Don't make much sense. To me, anyway.
DISCLAIMER: Just giving my point of view since I feel strongly on this subject. Doesn't mean I don't value or respect others views.
No doubt you do feel strongly, but you've made it clear how much you value or respect others views.