What do you think the forums on ECCIE are missing?

I'm beginning to think the same thing.. it has become very boring with the constant "hill-billy wars". This place quit being a place share information.. it's now a bar where everybody insists that anyone that doesn't have the same thought process, is wrong, and uninformed.. It's not what it could be, or even what it was.. it's a shame.. Originally Posted by nuglet

+1

They are "guidelines"... NOT rules....

Except for certain "nuclear violations" before A MOD takes action in regards to a guideline they need to consider the overall situation and all members participation in what's going one.

Some members bring shit down on themselves and when they do they seldom get any reprieve from the self-moderating nature the boards also posses. Originally Posted by Whispers

i disagree. There's a certain group that constantly shits on anyone they don't agree with. It really needs to end. If the guidelines for decorum are so loosely followed or enforced.... its just sort of sad. Everyone knows it. But let the circle jerk continue.

and there is little "self-moderating" ... self appointed moderating is more accurate and rarely clsoe to never even gets close the guidelines as they were written by the owners.

Just addressing the question posed in the topic line: Civilty and Respect

i disagree. There's a certain group that constantly shits on anyone they don't agree with. It really needs to end. If the guidelines for decorum are so loosely followed or enforced.... its just sort of sad. Everyone knows it. But let the circle jerk continue.

and there is little "self-moderating" ... self appointed moderating is more accurate and rarely clsoe to never even gets close the guidelines as they were written by the owners. Originally Posted by budman33

And yet the owners don't step in to end it?
Maybe you don't know so much about their intentions with the guidelines huh?
I have participated in threads with St. C in them, so you can bet he is reading.

i disagree. There's a certain group that constantly shits on anyone they don't agree with. It really needs to end. If the guidelines for decorum are so loosely followed or enforced.... its just sort of sad. Everyone knows it. But let the circle jerk continue.

and there is little "self-moderating" ... self appointed moderating is more accurate and rarely clsoe to never even gets close the guidelines as they were written by the owners. Originally Posted by budman33

I see shit slinging from both sides.

I think if there is a lot of intolerance on both sides of the very strong opinions.

While coed is abundant in outlandish reactions from the so called attacks. I think coed peeps lack humility and the ability to influence others properly.

I think people give too much power to the inflammatory statements they don't agree with and it turns into a fiasco.

Them: "People who like things in their butt are homo"

You: "Well I like things up my butt and I'm not a homo"

Them: "well you're a homo or will eventually offer your back-pussy to another man"

What happens next is up to "you".

There are so many ways this convo could go.
One will never help someone else understand things as they do by simply telling others to do what they say or stooping down to another's level and in turn insulting them back.

If your looking for a fight by all means... go slay a motherfucker proper-like Miss V-style... and make it good!!

+1 for the mutual respect. I hardly ever wander over here to coed, let alone post, because of the massive amount of disrespect against one another.

I was under the impression this was an info share board, not a board to be used for attacking one another. I am always game for a healthy discussion with two opposing opinions, but thats far from what happens here when anyone gets heated.

Let's just all pour a nice glass of bourbon and agree to disagree. Let the boards be fun again! ����

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