Am I a Complete Dick?

Thanks for the all the advice, after thinking good and hard about it I have decided that at the bare minimum I owe it to her to make it work. I'm going to delete my eccie account, and do everything we can to fix this. I do love her, more than anything. So, once again, thanks for the advice and opinions. Originally Posted by jason0313

Awesome! All the best!

Coming to a whore board for marital advice is like going to a bar for alcohol counseling. Originally Posted by TheBizz

Yeah but in this case it worked for him...he was given sound advice and he deleted his account and moved on. Good for him.

Yeah but in this case it worked for him...he was given sound advice and he deleted his account and moved on. Good for him. Originally Posted by alluringava

Not to nitpick, but if you look through this thread you'll see that the OP's account hasn't been deleted.

Not to nitpick, but if you look through this thread you'll see that the OP's account hasn't been deleted. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

i noticed too

I can't wait to learn how this Lifetime movie of the week turns out. Getcha popcorn ready!

My experience is that if you have to ask if you're a complete dick, you probably are...

Here's an idea...she has a lot in her mind /shoulders right now. Law school is a long and stressful haul. She seems to be bracing for the times ahead vs. the present. Can't fault her for that.

My recommendation: next semester break take her on a nice vacation (cruise etc). Working 50 hours per week, saving money and helping you get through school, you can't expect super woman. If you go somewhere nice AND she can relax (nice meals, massage, wine) you'll gt everything you want and then some.

Second thing is find something you are both interested in. Schedule a vacation around that. Just you two. Don't tell her to act lime a stripper etc. she has to get there in her own way. I know guys who have been married 25 years who are still getting bjs from their SO.

Sounds to me that your approach is what's getting her uncomforable. Just my 2cents. I wouldn't go the divorce route because to read what you say you would regret it...

Not to rain on any latecomer's parade, but the OP's account is disabled. You may be offering the sagest advice imaginable, but he ain't gonna read it.

Awwwww bless your heart!! You just need a really good blowjob.....or therapy
no Im just kidding either divorce her and move on or work harder at trying to discover what shes needing! But then again 7years damm..........
Kisses,Jaci
Sounds like your SOL to me....

Not to rain on any latecomer's parade, but the OP's account is disabled. You may be offering the sagest advice imaginable, but he ain't gonna read it. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

Maybe we should change the title to, "Was He a Complete Dick?"

Before making any life-changing decision learn how to communicate with her through a few session with a professional counselor. It won't be cheap but it doesn't have to be too expensive if you work as hard as you seem to want to work. he time investment you have both made deserves the opportunity to get to the bottom of ALL of the issues.

Best of luck.