Do Weaves and Wefts Take away from a "True" Ebony Experience?? "

Don't nobody think a Afro is cute lol. You gone lose all your business trying to pull that off. Black women know what they doing. We only race in the world who even grow Afros. But when men think ebony they just thinking dark skin tone, not Afro lmao. They'd be mad as hell gotta look at a Fro giving them head bwahaha.
Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I agree, although Florida Evans on good times was insatiable (the gap in her teeth would give more suction maybe) in her own right...... Id rather fuck Thelma with her thick self.

But I wouldn't turn down a FRO-BLOW....but she better be fine as hell. Way better than Pam Grier.Think Beyonce in Austin powers Goldmember..........

I got a little confident after wearing my real hair (permed straight real hair) up in a nice bun or pony tail for a few sessions and being complimented...........Next thing I know I got my first NO review, in which case he describes my hair as Short and Black...

Never the less that has ensured me to make sure I wear my wig every time, every session, probably wont even wear my natural hair around the clients who like it anymore to tell you the truth.......... But man o man I am afraid to even wear my own hair anymore... I have also vowed the sun as my enemy... I messed around and got a tan this summer and that messed me up to... I thought I was light skinned all this time, but I guess with a tan I am Dark skinned..

If I wasn't a provider I wouldn't care, but I will make optimum money if I conform to the worlds and especially America's standard of beauty. Being a rebel only makes you cool in high school, so to speak. It's not always easy, but hard work pays off. Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Sellout.......for the man.........."oh massa Isa suck your dick real good.....yesum. Isa change my ways........" I hope your really joking. Otherwise that's a disgrace. How would you go from being confident in your own hairdo and look....to conforming to a client. Please tell me you have an NBA policy enforced....then this will make some sense.

finer than Pam Grier? Beyonce over Pam Grier ? We have different tastes...Pam Grier is/was fine !! And those titties ...omg! My idol.

So, would you consider wigs, extensions, and etc just as part of an Ebony experience as our natural hair lovely Mya? This is one question I'd like to address... Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Yes I think that is what is expected of black women. We will get looked at crazy for having an Afro... looked at crazier by other black people than other races more than likely too lol.

Sellout.......for the man.........."oh massa Isa suck your dick real good.....yesum. Isa change my ways........" I hope your really joking. Otherwise that's a disgrace. How would you go from being confident in your own hairdo and look....to conforming to a client. Please tell me you have an NBA policy enforced....then this will make some sense. Originally Posted by gimme_that

It is great that you love a black woman's natural hair in its natural state. But you my friend are the extreme rarity, and even rarer in the hobby world. TRUST ME!

Yep I am a sell out, black men would find that a turn off quicker than other races of people hell. It earned me my first No review, Which he admits my service was impeccable, and he came and got his rocks off. But just because I was not light enough(or atleast as light as he thought I was) and my hair was not down to my ass, I got NO.

I wish there were enough black men to suffice business but there is not. So yes I conform to what the men whom frequent me like.

And actually I have never had a NBA policy, I love my black clients very much.

I'd would rather wear weave down my back than my short natural hair. I think it's half blonde right now...I don't know I only see it in between sew-ins. Sell out or whatever, I like my Brazilian hair that I got from a Chinese man named Eric. Even my WHITE fiance loves it because it doesn't stick out like my natural hair (although he likes my short hair too because it's puffy).

Give me a weave any day. And you can have fun pulling it. Had one guy wrap it around his arm and yank my head back so far my back bent. Talk about major orgasm

Yes I think that is what is expected of black women. We will get looked at crazy for having an Afro... looked at crazier by other black people than other races more than likely too lol.



It is great that you love a black woman's natural hair in its natural state. But you my friend are the extreme rarity, and even rarer in the hobby world. TRUST ME!

Yep I am a sell out, Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I didn't mean actually that you were a sellout. It was more so in a joking manner. The part I was serious about was conforming to one minute client out of many you had. So the hairdo u preferred still worked for you. Conforming your looks and appearance to a client who is merely renting you doesn't seem worth it in the long run. Steady business or not, I gotta have my self respect. Its like bleaching your skin..........would you do that too if they said your skin was too black? For a client who happened to be black......its like pleading your case to an NBA provider about how you are a "safe black" and how she should change her ideals to suit me......fudge her lol.

I gotta admit you are right about natural bushy hair not being preferred. I'm black and love black women, but definitely prefer if a ladys hair is either braided, locs, or straight and permed. A bush would not turn me on....unless she was drop dead gorgeous. I love braids and locs too, probably moreso than permed or straight. Bushes and natural hair are definitely a rarity.......and I'm sure I wouldn't be partial to it. I feel some kinda way about this though.....but you dead to right only in regards to the hair majority wise unfortunately......

What about conforming , period? That's slightly one reason I went completely natural. And I didn't want to be the same, or the expectation. Don't get me wrong, I switch it up for my lovers, but at home and around family typically I wear my hair. I love the strong, durable 's' curls and spirals. Not to mention, I love a man's hands going through my head, and light tugging...

I have to reply to this. I'm a white guy invariably attracted to black women (and I've seen a bunch). I strongly prefer the natural, kinky, curly feel; whatever you want to call it, long or short. I've always been amazed at the time, trouble, and expense that ebony girls put into taking away the "natural" look by ironing, cooking, straightening, weaves, etc., etc.
Nothing could be better than feeling Layla Angelique's natural hair against your face and chest after a hot session IMO. And that wild, Zulu Princess look doesn't bother me a bit, in fact it is a big turn on.

I have to reply to this. I'm a white guy invariably attracted to black women (and I've seen a bunch). I strongly prefer the natural, kinky, curly feel; whatever you want to call it, long or short. I've always been amazed at the time, trouble, and expense that ebony girls put into taking away the "natural" look by ironing, cooking, straightening, weaves, etc., etc.
Nothing could be better than feeling Layla Angelique's natural hair against your face and chest after a hot session IMO. And that wild, Zulu Princess look doesn't bother me a bit, in fact it is a big turn on. Originally Posted by ammonite

Amen

P.S. I found a picture of Pam Grier (Thanks Eva!)

Ah Pam Grier is hotness personified, and a badass to boot. Beyonce could not hold Pam Grier's g string.

Had one guy wrap it around his arm and yank my head back so far my back bent. Talk about major orgasm Originally Posted by MaryBeth

Now that's what I'm talking bout, MaryBeth it's freaks like you that keep me in the hobby.

There's only one thing I hate about long hair, weave or natural, is when it get's in the way of a good head clinic. But that's when I wrap that s@#t up around my hand and instead of yanking I'm pushing, talk about a major orgasm!

Amen

P.S. I found a picture of Pam Grier (Thanks Eva!)

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Thanks hun, this pic is FIRE!!