What Makes A Hobbyist Wanna Visit A Provider Again?

Where have you been all my life? Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Now what???

A lot of this is all nice and fine, but not near enough is being said about the importance of showing up on time. In the last 2.5 months I've had 5 NCNS's. In the last 3.5 months I've had close to 10 appointments that were 15+ minutes late. The number of times I've bit my tongue, tried to have patience, and texted "No big deal, life happens" makes me smh. I know this is a job for most providers, and most probably view an appointment that doesn't happen like I do having a meeting canceled at work.

Case in point, I had an appointment today with a provider who has posted in this very thread. I had to cancel because by the time she got to the hotel, was registered and ready to call me up, we would have started 30 minutes late. I had already confirmed the appointment, jumped through hoops to make it on time, and I was full on commitments for the rest of the night. She came back with a "Sorry, I have a morning slot available". Hmm no, she's off the list. There is a difference between truly unavoidable situations, and ones that are self caused. Most providers on here act like all of theirs are the unavoidable ones. For the record, traffic in the Galleria along 610 at 4:30 during the week does not classify as unavoidable. It's as sure as death and taxes. Try leaving the house on time or pick an incall that's not at ground zero for Houston traffic Hell.

Bottom line, you want me and many other clients as regulars? Show up and be on time, or you won't even get a chance to wow us with all those others steps.

A lot of this is all nice and fine, but not near enough is being said about the importance of showing up on time. In the last 2.5 months I've had 5 NCNS's. In the last 3.5 months I've had close to 10 appointments that were 15+ minutes late. The number of times I've bit my tongue, tried to have patience, and texted "No big deal, life happens" makes me smh. I know this is a job for most providers, and most probably view an appointment that doesn't happen like I do having a meeting canceled at work.

Case in point, I had an appointment today with a provider who has posted in this very thread. I had to cancel because by the time she got to the hotel, was registered and ready to call me up, we would have started 30 minutes late. I had already confirmed the appointment, jumped through hoops to make it on time, and I was full on commitments for the rest of the night. She came back with a "Sorry, I have a morning slot available". Hmm no, she's off the list. There is a difference between truly unavoidable situations, and ones that are self caused. Most providers on here act like all of theirs are the unavoidable ones. For the record, traffic in the Galleria along 610 at 4:30 during the week does not classify as unavoidable. It's as sure as death and taxes. Try leaving the house on time or pick an incall that's not at ground zero for Houston traffic Hell.

Bottom line, you want me and many other clients as regulars? Show up and be on time, or you won't even get a chance to wow us with all those others steps. Originally Posted by citizen44

I agree with you.

I never upcharge or rush my clients because satisfaction is a must.. regulars are the best so i will go out my way for my clients needs.. i actually offer low specials to my regs.

My ATF provides a bucket of fried chicken with each visit.

A great attitudes and a willingness to please.

My ATF provides a bucket of fried chicken with each visit. Originally Posted by Prime Time

For me to repeat there has to be genuine chemistry. Good sex should be a given, if I've done my research right, and the hobbyists whose reviews I trust didn't steer me wrong.

And I understand YMMV, but to click with someone who I can have a coherent conversation with, laugh with, AND fuck the dog shit out of is what draws me back, repeatedly.

: Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Absolutely !!!

My ATF provides a bucket of fried chicken with each visit. Originally Posted by Prime Time

Regular or spicy? I like spicy. Lol : )

wait... you see a provider more than once....!?!?!?!?!! ......Why....???

Its all about the attention and distractions. Also, the chemistry between the two...

Easy scheduling, truth in advertising (as to appearance, what is offered, fee, and time), cleanliness (person and surroundings), attentiveness to what turns me on (whether through observation or asking), willingness to be pleased and advice as to what turns her on, earnest hugs and kisses before, during, and after, and treating me like a friend instead of just another client,

Its all about the attention and distractions. Also, the chemistry between the two... Originally Posted by Sweet tart candy

I agree