Chris Rock once said, "Normal Men want three things from a relationship after a few years in it,
1) Feed Me
2) Fuck Me
3) Shut the Fuck up!
I wonder if this might be the reason so many relationships end lately?
It seems to me, Hobbying is the natural outpouring of these sentiments.
I'm not making a judgement either way, I'm just saying I think it's interesting that some men feel this way.
My wife passed away after a long relationship, and I get lonely, so I hobby. I have fun, I try to make sure the lady has fun, and we part, sometimes to meet again, sometimes not.
My advice? Stay in it because your happy, or disconnect your dick from your baser emotions and have fun. Old age creeps up too fast to do otherwise.