Great topic... I still love this hobby and in fact this last year has been the most fun I've ever had. Originally Posted by Analeese***** +1 *****
I haven't gotten to the overly kinky side of things yet..... Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07OSL07 - Perhaps you need a sex coach. My my ... doors can open for you!
P.S. If you look anything like your avatar ... then daam- um... me lord ... a fondling princess you will find!
...My comments are not law, they are strictly my opinion and really doesn't mean shit to anyone else besides me. Originally Posted by Tronhorn356Yes ... well, as I've told others in the past ... go on, get your paci and back to your playpen. Take a long nap and all will be well again.
… Now, I look at the entire game, provider and client, with a profound respect…. YOU CAN'T LOOK DOWN AT ANYBODY, YOU DON'T KNOW THE STORY AS TO WHY THEY'RE IN THE SITUATION THEY'RE IN! Originally Posted by mrredcat43First off – RedCat – This Thread took me by surprise and by PLEASANT surprise. You’re a helluva guy to share this and I commend you!
… All it takes is one MAJOR life event and the girl who had her shit together is now a working girl. Originally Posted by mrredcat43You might learn as you venture forward in this hobby world, that not all of us had “a major event” causing us to be a “working girl”.
I left the corporate world BY CHOICE in order to pursue this incredible adventure. It took two months of research and reaching out to high quality providers to help me get started.
I approached this as a business then … and still do to this day. It is the most wonderful industry I have ever experienced.
I do know however, many girls who get into this occupation are just looking for a fast buck, maybe some high level of attention or even just to make ends meet.
These are usually the younger girls who take it day by day and basically are giving up their soul to the devil if necessary.
To those girls …. I can only hope they eventually find themselves and their self-respect and will be able to move forward in life in a way that produces positivity and pride.
The johns who take advantage of these precious gems will virtually suck the life out of them using them up for their own satisfaction,
without regards to the fact she is a human being with real life occurrences. Those guys are much lower on the life scale than the girl.
What she does today should not dictate who she will be in 20 years (as long as she has smarts). And by that I mean by being in this business, you become tougher, more proud, more in control and have the joy of experiencing YOUR OWN life without being controlled by another.
... in Asia, becoming a Provider is viewed as a smart and necessary move, by many.. if your family is poor (many are), providing is a good way to help support the whole family, and is thus sanctioned and almost encouraged. Originally Posted by Chung TranWe have a lot to learn from that culture – which btw … has been around for thousands of years … we Americans need to get our noses out of the air and get a clue!
... this is really fun for some women who are able to really get into it ...I'm at a point in my life where I can finally enjoy my hobby experiences for what they really are...and it's not all about the cash... All the little moments to savor in this hobby Originally Posted by AnaleeseVery true
There's a LOT of close-minded individuals in the sticks who will go to church Sunday morning, and they'll be swinging the night before. Originally Posted by mrredcat43Yep…those holy rollers really lay it on the congregation but are mainly just living, quote "sin" the behind the scenes.
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I have learned that being a polite person has opened some doors for me. I have been able to meet some very interesting ladies that have a good entrepreneurial sense about them. I can't help but to admire it. Originally Posted by Iceman69AMEN to that!
About how I view the hobby, everyone I dealt with is different so my feelings are all over the chart, You get what you give if that makes any sense Originally Posted by BLM69That is for damn sure.
Giving is not only BCD, it is how you “give” on the board.
That usually defines the predetermined actions of what you will “give” … BCD.
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