Submissive or submissive leaning men...

Ah I understand. Happy hunting and I hope you find time to treat yourself to the demimonde until you find her.

Thanks for the compliment. 🙂

And maybe I worded it wrong—I’m wanting a similar experience in my next relationship, if that’s out there. I think because I’m in a bad relationship now, and some of the best sex I ever had was in that past D/s relationship, I keep trying to recreate the past with providers…when I should be looking forward.

As for meeting Dominant women in the dating world, I’m at a loss for where to begin. Then again, I haven’t been actively dating for some time, so I have a lot of homework to do… Originally Posted by CoffeeBear

I think you can have your cake and eat it too... Originally Posted by ZoeyBelle

Or.........you can find a woman who will tie you up, smear the cake all over her ass, shove it in your face and make you lick it all off while she masturbates to orgasm.

Or.........you can find a woman who will tie you up, smear the cake all over her ass, shove it in your face and make you lick it all off while she masturbates to orgasm. Originally Posted by GolfNut6372

This +1,000. Now, where to find these women…that’s the problem.

For me there are two factors. First the vast majority of young women are submissive, although it may take a strong confident man to see that. Conversely a dominant woman, dark and dangerous, is like the great white whale and i'm Capt Ahab; obsessed with her beauty and uniqueness tho i know it will be my undoing. The second is that i am alpha male in real life and i enjoy the switch, taking orders and punishment instead of dishing them out.

A woman with a little bit of Wonder Woman and Barb Wire mixed in. Both strong women who forces me to submit, restrain and gag me. My fate is decided with this mystery woman, who has her way with me. Driving me to a forced ecstasy. My next prov would also have no problem dressing sexy and taking control when she is ready.

I also agree it’s difficult finding a pro vs pro dom that could give to my needs since I like the roleplay, costume, femdom play. I went to another city to meet a pro dom (amazing and stunning) but she did what she wanted even though I explained my likes in a candid convo. I had a blast, the encounter also helped me meet someone who wasn’t an dom to play with my needs in mine. Too bad there isn’t a middle type of provider.

There are actually some of us (myself included) who specialize in fantasy fulfillment such as this. It doesn't always mean you get your way 100% and you may find you enjoy yourself more when you give up control a bit, but there is definitely a happy medium. I like to compromise. We do what you want to do when you do what I want to do. You scratch mine and I'll scratch yours.

This +1,000. Now, where to find these women…that’s the problem. Originally Posted by CoffeeBear

Now this sounds like an incredible evening...