First Contact - Separates Men from Boys

after 25 yrs seeking and enjoying delites, here are my general beliefs.

the above reads like another one of those "i've got my view of the world and you've got your view of the world."
without any attempt at "let's agree to disagree" and instead going out and having/enjoying some delites!!


at the base level, men in this sub-culture are seeking adult sex providers for sex. period.
anything else is icing on the cake, whether that be sharp conversation, attractive appearance, proximity, ease of arranging.
and generally they want as much as they can get for as little of their money as possible.

at the base level, adult sex providers (ASPs) are doing this for money. period.
anything else is icing on the cake, whether that be sharp conversation, decent/nice guy w/ decent appearance, less work to prepare, etc.
and generally they want as much money as possible for as little work as possible.


and yes, there are men who do this cos they dont have any game but have money. and who do it cos they have game and money, but they just really enjoy visiting women and having a deliteful time. and who dont know anything but think they do & are right about it, but wind up irritating/pissing off people on both sides.
but, it's still about sex.

and yes, there are ASPs who do this cos they dont have dating and/or relationship skills. and who do this just for sexual activities and the pleasures derived cos they've got financial resources to provide for themselves. and who dont know anything but think they do & are right about it, but wind up irritating/pissing off people on both sides.
but, it's still about money.


take away the money and i think that most guys would still seek out ASPs to have sex (but they'd still have to pay something, dinner, drinks, house, clothes, etc...)
take away the money and i think most ASPs would NOT do this for free.


bottom line, respect each other's choices as to why they do or dont do.
and leave the criticisms/judgements/evaluations to the universe.

live and enjoy your life.
and go have some delites!!

Maybe they smelled the pussy and decided to get lost, the screening is only affective when they're interested, what if they're not interested? Maybe they said screw it, I'll contact someone else with less requirements,

You talk like there's a shortage of options? There's always someone more eager, nicer willing to take the cock draining challenge, once tricks smarten up and learn how to fish, they'll never starve again...... I'm stuffed Originally Posted by BLM69

I'm curious as to why, when faced with any real intellectual challenge, you quickly resort to insults.

BTW that was a rhetorical question... most of us already know why and those that don't know don't matter.

Additionally don't put words in my mouth. There's definitely not a shortage of options because there's literally someone for everyone in this hobby which is the absolute beauty of the intersection of the laws of human attraction and a free unregulated marketplace.

I'm curious as to why, when faced with any real intellectual challenge, you quickly resort to insults.

BTW that was a rhetorical question... most of us already know why and those that don't know don't matter.

Additionally don't put words in my mouth. There's definitely not a shortage of options because there's literally someone for everyone in this hobby which is the absolute beauty of the intersection of the laws of human attraction and a free unregulated marketplace. Originally Posted by Evelyn QV

What insults? And what words did I put in your mouth? I was just making a statement in response to what you posted, you don't want to read response that you don't agree with, don't post up anything! sorry that I don't agree with your way of thinking

That's the beauty about the hobby, you can fish until someone bites your line, a few will bite..... I use a net to catch my meals. My ways shouldn't bother you

What insults? And what words did I put in your mouth? I was just making a statement in response to what you posted, you don't want to read response that you don't agree with, don't post up anything! sorry that I don't agree with your way of thinking

That's the beauty about the hobby, you can fish until someone bites your line, a few will bite..... I use a net to catch my meals. My ways shouldn't bother you Originally Posted by BLM69

Now you're going to play dumb in hopes that I'll rebut every point you've made and everything you've said line by line, but it's just not worth the effort because your entertainment value has long since trumped your usefulness in this hobby. The only one blind to your antics, apparently, is you.

It's never to late to heal and elevate to a more pleasant station in life, one where you lift people up instead of constantly tearing them down.

I know you're just eating up all of this attention that I'm giving you today but it really is a sad existence you've chosen.

Back to the main topic, hopefully any newbies or those who just didn't know have learned that some escorts prefer a more personal approach during the initial stages of contact and this thread has given them the tools they need to successfully book with the providers they desire!

When in doubt, read a provider's website and look for the clues as to her communication style and expectations. Each and every lady is oh so deliciously different, learn to navigate and enjoy the buffet!

Failure to follow instructions is high on my list of no-go's and since my site asks you to introduce yourself it is clear to me that you either didn't read or didn't care.

I'm sure I turn away some good clients but honestly if you can't or won't compose a coherent sentence in an effort to make a good first impression then who knows what other areas you'll be lacking in? Hygiene? The ability to understand the word no? Will you be able to follow the instructions to my door? You open up a box of red flags when you can't follow the first instruction you're given. Originally Posted by Evelyn QV

Get off your high horse now, some guys don't follow your messaging style so his hygiene is lacking now? I responded with the same idiot mentality by posting her pussy must stink and I'm the troubled one?

Newbies, this is what you stay away from! they're seeking simps, dummies and possibly guy's that enjoy getting kicked in the balls, because we disagree on this matter doesn't mean I'm "bringing you down" get out your feelings and back to reality, this is a discussion, not Twitter or OH2.

Had to remind you what energy you brought to this discussion so don't twist up anything or put words in my mouth now 🙂 Guy's are free to contact as they like, doesn't mean their cock stinks 😩

Ok ... keep flapping your Jaws...
Maybe at some point .... you will make some sense....
Hey ... miracles do happen...

Why you so bitter?
Just because you can't afford the sweets on this site?
Then go back to your CraigsList cage .....

I'm just going to say it.




Why spend so much time arguing with someone that... in your own words... isn't your target market? What benefit do you hope to gain?

I'm just going to say it.




Why spend so much time arguing with someone that... in your own words... isn't your target market? What benefit do you hope to gain? Originally Posted by Grace Preston

I can answer that, you seen that TT has some hope that she's gonna change my views to line up with hers, maybe she's just use to getting her way all the time?

I think she secretly loves me and wants my full attention, maybe she wants me to say that she's worth more than my whores I mess with? I don't really know why she likes arguing so much to be honest.. I'll hold my breath for her to be nice to me

Ok ... keep flapping your Jaws...
Maybe at some point .... you will make some sense....
Hey ... miracles do happen...

Why you so bitter?
Just because you can't afford the sweets on this site?
Then go back to your CraigsList cage ..... Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Torre
late night fun

We see these threads semi-regularly. An ''Escort'' admonishes guys about their approach to business. Tells us she is a Mercedes, and only Kia's accept the uncouth manner in which many Guys begin a hook up discussion.

Why worry about your non-target Market? It is so easy for both parties to dismiss and move on.

The kind of approach Torre desires, is abhorrent to many other Providers, who would immediately label those guys ''shoppers'' and ''time wasters''.

We see these threads semi-regularly. An ''Escort'' admonishes guys about their approach to business. Tells us she is a Mercedes, and only Kia's accept the uncouth manner in which many Guys begin a hook up discussion.

Why worry about your non-target Market? It is so easy for both parties to dismiss and move on.

The kind of approach Torre desires, is abhorrent to many other Providers, who would immediately label those guys ''shoppers'' and ''time wasters''. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

These discussions always turn out the same way when someone that don't see things their way are called a boy lol, that's like someone starting a thread about anyone still in this gig above the age of 50 being washed up. I'm sure that wouldn't be a positive thread.

We all know the quality of a nice Mercedes, it isn't a old clunker with high miles with a worn out engine. Things are what they are....

I just fuck em and leave :shrug:

GRACE PRESTON

Why spend so much time arguing with someone that... in your own words... isn't your target market? What benefit do you hope to gain?

It’s funny that question often comes up when I post and banter with the undesirables.

Everyone has their preference as to how they participate in this hobby ….. if someone comes at me ….. I won’t just stand aside.

But truly, the bottom line is, in the background, what they don’t realize is I get more Business.
More inquiries, requests & recognition from lurkers and others. They appreciate the fact I put forth my straight forward personality.
I’m not hesitant to express my views.
Some agree, some don’t. No matter to me
If they like it …. They contact me.
It could be (and has been) the beginning of a lasting relationship …

BLM

..These discussions always turn out the same way when someone that don't (DOESN’T) see things their way are called a boy lol,
that's like someone starting a thread about anyone still in this gig above the age of 50 being washed up.
I'm sure that wouldn't be a positive thread.

BLM - As usual, you don’t get the point of the thread.
Many newbies are reading the forums to learn how to enter this world.
If they get some advice or learn from it, depending on what they are looking for …. then it is a productive thread.

BLM

We all know the quality of a nice Mercedes, it isn't a old clunker with high miles with a worn out engine.
Things are what they are....

Well, thank you BLM! I assume you are giving the Mercedes title to me?

PM DELITES

..at the base level, adult sex providers (ASPs) are doing this for money. period.
anything else is icing on the cake, whether that be sharp conversation, decent/nice guy w/ decent appearance,
less work to prepare, etc.
and generally they want as much money as possible for as little work as possible.

PM! Your off base here.
It’s odd how the johns think they “know what the life is” of a provider.
Guess what …. You don’t.
Little work as possible?
Ha! Not for those of us who hold high standards on our service.
There is MUCH involved.

Administratve work – very time consuming.

Self-preservation – time and money
(hair, nails, skin, waxing, clothing, lingerie, shoes, etc.).

A clean and attractive incall, - costly
paying rent / utilities, décor, furniture, linens, etc.

Emotional balance:
time off, low volume, insuring quality clients

I don’t particularly NEED the money.
It’s not the reason I am in this business.
Along with some other provider’s opinions, we do it because we love this industry.
We feel we truly make a difference in many peoples’ lives.
That is apparent to us on a constant basis.
All the while quenching our own desires

Of course we LOVE to roll around in the sheets!
That's why we are so damn good at our job.


PM DELIGHTS

..in general, any first communication should be nice, considerate and respectful.
Ladies, if you get one that isnt, just chunk it and dont look back.

Yay! Back on track PM …

BLM

…I'll hold my breath for her to be nice to me

Go Fish. I don’t hold that card.

Chung Tran

..We see these threads semi-regularly. An ''Escort'' admonishes guys about their approach to business.
Tells us she is a Mercedes, and only Kia's accept the uncouth manner in which many Guys begin a hook up discussion.

Hey …. I’m just saying …. What’s wrong with showing a little respect?
Is it too much to ask?
Whether I or she is a Mercedes or a Kia ….. respect still goes A LONG way.
And you bypass that with SW’s or those with little self esteem.
That’s just bad karma on your part.

Chung Tran

..Why worry about your non-target Market? It is so easy for both parties to dismiss and move on.

As I said to Grace Preston – THE LURKERS are watching …. THEY are my target market.

Chung Tran

..The kind of approach Torre desires, is abhorrent to many other Providers, who would immediately label those guys ''shoppers'' and ''time wasters.

Abhorrent? They are disgusted and find it offensive?
Ok… I get that.
It’s a free country though.
They can run their business as they do.
And us screening providers will run ours.

BLM

..We all know the quality of a nice Mercedes, it isn't a old clunker with high miles with a worn out engine. Things are what they are....

Thanks BLM! I assume you refer to me as the Mercedes?

Dererek2

I just fuck em and leave :shrug:

What a pathetic existence ….
That doesn't deserve bold or underline! ... lol.

Cheers to everyone!
TT

Talk about delusional, We all know when TT is running low on $, she starts posting her nonsense threAds

The granny experience is a thing, I might go in when you start giving the gummy experience, You've been turning tricks how long now? 40 years..... 😬