Which would you rather???

Yes he will Mandy, just keep in mind that he doesn't change from a cat to prince charming when you kiss him. He stays the same

as far as making you guys think we do...i cant say i agree, maybe this is where my flaw is as a provider, but i have never lied or done anything for a client that wasnt real. i dont fake recieving pleasure. people tell me guys get turned on when they know they are getting the girl off, yes this is very true but if i cant naturally have an orgasm then im not going to fake it, i feel if i fake it i will do it wrong and look like a retard. and guys are usually pretty good about telling whether the girl is honest in her reaction or if we are just wanting you guys to think your doing it right. or for example, i have never been comfortable talking "dirty" i dont know maybe its because ive never watched porn or read dirty books, its something i feel i cant get into 100 percent and if i know thats what a client likes i will let him know its not something i offer because if im going to offer a certain service i want to be one hundred percent comfortable in it, or else you look silly and they know your not really into it, then it just doesnt work out and the appointment can get kinda awkward cuz im not comfortable and he knows im not really into doing what hes asked me to do. make sence?

Considering we aren't in the sessions with her then none of us know just how much she doesn't care about the money so we? She could very easily be doing that very thing Not saying she does.... Just sayin'

And I can tell you now that just because you're a provider doesn't mean you have to enjoy sex.... Remember that fiasco of a thread in Houston where a lady talked about how much she hated sex and the clients that came to see her. I'm sure with how long you've been around and the ladies you've met you know as well as I do that not all providers like sex. They are just good at making us think they do lol... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

hey Mandy,

we are going to have fun.

again.

whats a sugar cat daddy? lol

Mandy,
I'll be your sugar Cat Daddy! Originally Posted by boardman

MEOW???!!!! lol

Yes he will Mandy, just keep in mind that he doesn't change from a cat to prince charming when you kiss him. He stays the same Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

im going to have to go to victoria secret again for you :-)

hey Mandy,

we are going to have fun.

again. Originally Posted by notanewbie

Hey, if the dog tosses a better salad than she does, do I need to tip the dog then? What's the rule on this? Originally Posted by Wakeuр

my current ATF is always ready at the scheduled time and in lingerie and perfect Hygiene and I really appreciate the attention to detail and effort she puts in. I always take a shower right before I leave for the appointment and I try to always be on time and respect her time also.

I dont think you have to choose between beauty or GFE since there are many with both qualities but Beauty alone isnt enough for me to be a regular. I also appreciate someone I can lay in bed and talk to after the fun. Originally Posted by Bluntman

You and I are going to get along just fine ....I'm even more looking forward to meeting you now..

Mandy, I hear where you're coming from and I understand the concept you are trying to get at.

Like Blowpop, I prefer the girl next door (as long as she has DD cups or better ) versus the beauty queen. I was always too intimidated by the beauty queen, while I felt more comfortable with the girl next door.

Hey, if the dog tosses a better salad than she does, do I need to tip the dog then? What's the rule on this? Originally Posted by Wakeuр

If its a Chihuahua all proceeds go to dearhunter.

well if youre a provider, you have to enjoy sex! Im sure Mandy enjoys sex! Im jus saying that she is makin it sound like she isnt here for the money. N if money isnt important then she should give it for free to the members here.. Originally Posted by hollyofhouston

Free samples?!?!?!

At the end of the day I think money does matter, I mean you dont walk out without paying if you do then expect to hear some shit for it. As for the topic I'm selective, soo I choose a hot girl with great GFE skills. If she's missing one of those then pass.

I know there are several hobbyists out there that have been in the life a LOT longer than I have, but I have been around the block enough times to realize a few things.
It doesn't matter if she is a beauty queen or the girl next door, and I have learned over the years that... you get what you are willing to give.

I'm not the same hobbyist I was...let's say... 3 years ago. Of course I have to be attracted to the lady, but the way I see it, if the mental aspect can be understood by both parties, then the pleasure will shine in the end. It's about giving.

We all hobby whether we're male or female...for different reasons. Is it always about money...really? Sometimes it isn't about fulfilling a fantasy either.

Maybe it's as simple as wanting to ~share~ a sexual experience with the person of your choosing. In order to share, you have to be willing to give... as well as receive.

Some of you may think I'm about half nuts...but that's the way I see it, now.


Then there are the times when I have a hunger that needs to be fed. That's a whole different ballgame.

i really like how you put that. it never crossed my mind that hobbyists themselve can change and evolve as well as the provider. but it makes alot of sence

I know there are several hobbyists out there that have been in the life a LOT longer than I have, but I have been around the block enough times to realize a few things.
It doesn't matter if she is a beauty queen or the girl next door, and I have learned over the years that... you get what you are willing to give.

I'm not the same hobbyist I was...let's say... 3 years ago. Of course I have to be attracted to the lady, but the way I see it, if the mental aspect can be understood by both parties, then the pleasure will shine in the end. It's about giving.

We all hobby whether we're male or female...for different reasons. Is it always about money...really? Sometimes it isn't about fulfilling a fantasy either.

Maybe it's as simple as wanting to ~share~ a sexual experience with the person of your choosing. In order to share, you have to be willing to give... as well as receive.

Some of you may think I'm about half nuts...but that's the way I see it, now.


Then there are the times when I have a hunger that needs to be fed. That's a whole different ballgame. Originally Posted by john353

lol
yay for dd cups!

Mandy, I hear where you're coming from and I understand the concept you are trying to get at.

Like Blowpop, I prefer the girl next door (as long as she has DD cups or better ) versus the beauty queen. I was always too intimidated by the beauty queen, while I felt more comfortable with the girl next door. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Hey sexy, glad to have you back in H-town. I need a rematch.
And yes this is the right gman this time lol

Everybody wants a rematch

when i first got into the hobby i didnt enjoy sex because i didnt know my body and i had never even had ever recieved pleasure from it, but over time i have come to know my body through the clients ive seen and i will forever be greatful with this. no the money isnt important but the clients satisfaction is what turns me on, i guess for me to say your paying for my time and whatever happens during that time is up to us, is so very true. if we have sex then awesome but its just the time your paying for not the sex. i have alot of clients i dont even sleep with, the money is just a side benefit. Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

Wow! You've got some tiger blood in you, don't cha?