Ladies: a deep, maybe too personal question. I know i am not the only one who has these thoughts

Cherokeechief's Avatar
This is why Regular Guys get screwed.
I thought this thread was for the ladies? Originally Posted by Lubeman
Apparently there have been some sex change operations that have gone unannounced!

Lol!
About 4 years ago, I met someone in the hobby, and we kept doing what we did, me as a companion and him as a visitor, both with each other and with other people.

But we both found that we started not having as much fun with other partners as we did we each other. So, we agreed to give it a shot at love and we both left the hobby. We were in, what I believed to be, a committed relationship. There's no way it was going to work if I stayed being a companion because he was jealous. As was I.

This was a big step for me because it took away a huge source of income. So this was not a positive for me in that regard.

But it came out in time that he just moved from ECCIE to Backpage to hide his tracks. Once a monger, always a monger, right?

I did not make a wise choice. I lost a lot of money, and this dude was not worth it. And it's a choice I'll never make again. I might fall in love again--who knows what the future holds. But I won't quit doing what I'm doing until I'm good and ready.
He's extremely humble also, what a douche. Originally Posted by 71Pseudonym
Smoking Monkey's Avatar
This is such an unusual lifestyle that guys and girls have so many conflicting emotions, it's difficult to know what you're really feeling.
My advice: hAve a drink and/or a smoke and really think about what you're doing and what the future might look like. Can you deal with your possible SO having sex with multiple people? How many years can you handle that? Is there something in your personality that permits your partner to cuckold you? Complex scenario...No easy answer.