What is it Like for you to spend time with a Escort? Expectations??

I like the pleasure of leaving when I’m done and not having to lie about calling you later, or coming by to see you. I like the non attachment factor and anyone who thinks they can find true love here should plug in a lamp and bite the cord. I like a woman that I can converse with but I don’t like clingy women. Originally Posted by Gucci

Agreed!!!! Plus dating and putting up the BS that comes with that is aggravating at times. My favorite provider type is someone that I can have a physical connection with or can just hang out with NSA or friends with benefit type of situation.

MSOG. Of all my exes, only one thought it was a good thing that I could pop more than once, but she turned out to be batshit crazy. Hell, most providers don't want to put up with it either. Only through careful research can you find those rare, wonderful, goal oriented ladies who take pride in wringing every drop of pleasure from their clients. Originally Posted by Satyrrical

Exactly, I can go multiple times but lately that refractory period takes a little longer for me. So due to time and compensation deficiencies that come with acquiring more time with the provider I generally one and done. As I was told by one provider in particular I don't play around with the pussy, I like to have good kinky fun with the BS is why I hobby.

Being with an escort, hooker, whore, prostitute, courtesan, whatever we call it, is a release and that is it. It is only okay sex or mediocre. Sex with a condom is not ever great sex, never! I see providers when I grow tired of masterbation. Because seeing a provider and getting a good blow job is slightly better than self satisfaction.

Best sex is with a willing participant, a woman that wants to be with me not for my cash but because I turn her on. Without a condom, emotions, the whole connection thing is great sex. If you think a provider wants to be with you, ask for a free session see how that goes, lol. She wants my money note and that makes for less the great sex.

Men say they hobby because they dislike dating scene, that is bullshit. They do it because it is easy, no effort, a phone call and a few bucks and she is sucking my dick, very easy. No charm, no flirting, no honesty, no effort.

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I don't play around with the pussy, I like to have good kinky fun with the BS is why I hobby. Originally Posted by Demo x

Facts! Lol

Great question for a thread from one boricua to another. Muah!

Great question for a thread from one boricua to another. Muah! Originally Posted by Your_Sophia_Charm

Thanks hermosa
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Being with an escort, hooker, whore, prostitute, courtesan, whatever we call it, is a release and that is it. It is only okay sex or mediocre. Sex with a condom is not ever great sex, never! I see providers when I grow tired of masterbation. Because seeing a provider and getting a good blow job is slightly better than self satisfaction.

Best sex is with a willing participant, a woman that wants to be with me not for my cash but because I turn her on. Without a condom, emotions, the whole connection thing is great sex. If you think a provider wants to be with you, ask for a free session see how that goes, lol. She wants my money note and that makes for less the great sex.

Men say they hobby because they dislike dating scene, that is bullshit. They do it because it is easy, no effort, a phone call and a few bucks and she is sucking my dick, very easy. No charm, no flirting, no honesty, no effort. Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Thank you, this is all facts... imo

I only did it because I was down on my luck at the time, alot of personal issues and I was alone but when I started getting things back together and started having traditional sex, it's way better than with providers....

IMO so this isn't to judge others, YMMV of course, as your life experiences compared to others.

Sex with a condom is kinda hard and tricky, plus paying 140 for it is not worth it, that's what I paid for 30 minutes and that's cheap compared to what other girls charge.

Plus no real feelings and emotions, very mechanical, it's not like she's trying to please....

Overall, I don't think it's worth it, if I was to do it again I'd probably do a orgy and find some girls willing to do that. I wouldn't pay for 1 on 1 sex again for anything near regular escorts rates, the experience doesn't match up to real life with a real life companion you have feelings and emotions for.

And a release for 140 and up isn't worth it, when my hand is free

Really I thought I'd fuck like a porn star on a provider but once we talked and she explained they porn gives men unrealistic expectations and it's just regular sex with no emotions or connections I felt it's a waste of money.

Wow. You dont seem like you like escorts very much. Idk I could be wrong lol. But seems like hiring a escort is more of a last resort for you when your tired of your hand.

And even still if you hire one seems like you despise the idea of even having too. Which could be more of a Hate/whore sex type of thing. Which is really common. My opinion that could be why you dont enjoy it w/ a condom. You dont like having to pay for it.

Maybe bc you have had bad experiences w/ escorts that are Mechanical or Maybe bc you just dont like the idea of having to pay someone.

Everybody has different views. But paying for it is definitely not for you hun and that's okay. Some ppl cant get their rocks off knowing the only reason your getting laid is bc you paid her

My suggestion find a really Good GFE provider who likes to just be herself and No act. That's really natural and Enjoys sex. And somewhat Low volume also. Here's a Tip. Try having a conversation for at least 5mins then you'll know if that's who you want. If her personality clicks w/ yours then youve got a winner. There's your passion and emotion

Thanks for describing me as a provider to the T...lol
Even though I don't have a wide menu to offer, the experience I provide is gratifying enough for my clients because they can tell I enjoy myself and they don't feel like they just spent time with a plastic doll.

It's sad when hobbiest continue to have visits with the types of providers that do not put any emotions into their services. Some of us providers absolutely love the time and pleasure of our visits. This is because some of these men I'm referring to, have taken the time out to be respectful, have a sense of humor, they are generous and don't take our time for granted, the men are open to getting satisfied without a negative thought of how the session will turn out.

I've had sessions where afterwards, we forget it was a paid visit because the fun was that of two people crazy for one another. Perphaps I experience this because I'm careful with whom I allow to visit me, I let my passion flow, and I enjoy the moment. I'm not being forced to do this, I actually enjoy it and it thrills me. I also make sure I only visit with someone when I'm in the mood to, and my visits aren't determined by the fact that I need to have enough to pay bills.

So there's the more passionate providers, and then there's the ones that could care less about your pleasure. Do research and choose wisely.

If someone can't enjoy a visit because it's paid or there is protection being used, it's definitely not for them, no matter how much effort the provider puts in the visit.

My suggestion find a really Good GFE provider who likes to just be herself and No act. That's really natural and Enjoys sex. And somewhat Low volume also. Here's a Tip. Try having a conversation for at least 5mins then you'll know if that's who you want. If her personality clicks w/ yours then youve got a winner. There's your passion and emotion Originally Posted by Lia88

It's sad when hobbiest continue to have visits with the types of providers that do not put any emotions into their services. Some of us providers absolutely love the time and pleasure of our visits. This is because some of these men I'm referring to, have taken the time out to be respectful, have a sense of humor, they are generous and don't take our time for granted, the men are open to getting satisfied without a negative thought of how the session will turn out. Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

That is where the rub is, most fucktards do not research the providers they wish to see.

All I know is the ladies love me ... when the door closes behind me.

Wow. You dont seem like you like escorts very much. Idk I could be wrong lol. But seems like hiring a escort is more of a last resort for you when your tired of your hand.

And even still if you hire one seems like you despise the idea of even having too. Which could be more of a Hate/whore sex type of thing. Which is really common. My opinion that could be why you dont enjoy it w/ a condom. You dont like having to pay for it.

Maybe bc you have had bad experiences w/ escorts that are Mechanical or Maybe bc you just dont like the idea of having to pay someone.

Everybody has different views. But paying for it is definitely not for you hun and that's okay. Some ppl cant get their rocks off knowing the only reason your getting laid is bc you paid her Originally Posted by Lia88

You can't fskesexusl attraction and the providers I've seen all were the same. Honestly if it was more a a free lunch thing when pay it would be fine but you don't know who you're meeting and how they'll view you. Like i said the idea behind the business is good but it's poorly thought out, if a girl doesn't like you it's a waste of money.

Alot of these providers csmt keep regulars and usually it's because it's bad sex with a pricetag or it's no feeling there. It's alsongwts boring once in a while.

You seem to mention more like a introduction period which no provider looking for money wants to hear wasted speaking either you see me or upu don't.

The girl i ise to see called me to set something up smd I told her I'll cancel ams get back with you and she disappeared. They're used to cancellations and complainers because the service doesn't match the price.

It's not a cheap hobby and it takes a while to find a good peovider.

I've seen about 5 escorts in the last few years. Best experience was a DR young lady who put it on me good bit she's no longer sound.

getting a good blow job is slightly better than self satisfaction.
Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Wow. Claire-ly you have not experienced a good blow job before. Or you have very soft girly hands, lol.

I have had lots of good blow jobs, from my wife in the past. She actually listened to my requests, and she loved me so she got pleasure out of pleasing me. The providers I have seen are usually mechanical, and I have paid as much as $500 an hour, still mechanical. Every provider thinks she is great at it because most of her clients say it was great, they lie, lol. It was great to them because they do not know what a great blow job is because all their blow jobs come from prostitutes or they have wives that no longer go down on them because the romance and love is lost. So any blow job is great to them, lol.

My wife would lick on me, kiss my stomach then accidentally on purpose rub her chest on my penis as she licked down my torso. She would brush her long hair all over my body and member as it anticipated her touch and mouth. Oozing pre-cum would seep onto my lower abdomen. She would lick it up as she took hold of my hardness. She would spend 15 to 20 minutes licking my balls, shaft, head, while softly and slowly stroking me. She could feel me tense up and breath heavy so she slowed even further. Every so often taking member all the way into to her mouth. She would peek up at me and smile as she wiped her saliva off her chin, sometimes even give a sexy giggle. She put her back in a bun as to keep it out of the way and at times she would ask me where I wanted to cum, on her tits, face, body or in her mouth. She would always clean me up afterwards as well. I have never gotten anything close to that from a provider.