I want to know what it is with guys sucking a girls clit like a dick and sucking it hard. I mean I don't know if you other ladies like that but it makes me want to slap the crap out of someone. Originally Posted by Monica13I love having my clit sucked. Not super hard though and no teeth. A guy flicking his tongue over my clit and sucking on it drives me crazy.
Actually this thread and many other of my posts have caught the attention of a lot of guys. The more I post, the more my inbox fills up.
MB, everybody has bad experiences, both providers and gentlemen. Fortunately, this was pretty minor as far as "bad" goes. Sometimes these stories can be related with humor or pathos, made very entertaining or thought-provoking. However, I'm not so sure ladies should be telling tales of tail with such specifics and derision in the open forums. You gave enough detail to embarrass and pinpoint this fellow, especially if he writes a review. You could have phrased this in a more nebulous and tactful manner, as some of the other ladies have.
You may have decided not to see this particular client again, but how many gentlemen have now been turned off from seeing you? Same concept for all the alerts providers post publicly. Much of that would be best kept in the ladies only Infoshare area. Bear in mind that EVERY word we write on ECCIE is an advertisement representing our personalities.
I am not chastising you, just warning you to be more cautious. I speak from experience. I lost a very good client, someone I also considered a friend, from an offhand remark I once made. I meant nothing derogatory or personal, but suffered from a poor choice of words in a forum that was widely read.
Perish the thought that I agree with Fast Gunn (GASP!), but incidents like this ARE good teaching opportunities. Instead of "suffering through" or being passive-agressive by letting "... the guy go ahead and then proceed to snack his hand out of the way if he fucks up," perhaps you might be assertive and tell him up front that you like oral done a certain way because of your extreme sensitivity, and gently explain that every woman is different and therefore the same technique won't work all the time. (Obviously his past partners have not shared that truth with him before, nor given him any pointers.) Guide his hand and tongue. Make it into a game. Also, dare I say it? Often the point is not to get YOU off, so having that be a criteria is as much a failure of logic in this profession as his "failure" to properly give you DATY as you would have licked, er, liked.
Terribly sorry, but this won't be your first "horrible pussy licking" or your last, trust me.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
... So thanks for your concern but its not needed Originally Posted by MaryBethActually, my suggestion is after reading some thoughtful advice from another, is to smack the face of the person doing so.
I had a bad experience with a client today, he forgot to wipe the last time he took a shit. Originally Posted by Raquel de Milo