I miss Indy’s....

I, myself don't like to give a negative review, unless it is a security issue. If anybody wants hofo, all they have to is ask.
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I, myself don't like to give a negative review, unless it is a security issue. Originally Posted by Looker151
Why? If it’s a negative experience it calls for a negative review.
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Why? If it’s a negative experience it calls for a negative review. Originally Posted by Jacuzzme
Exactly. Honesty is what makes the reviews work well - and why when bullshit reviews are posted here, they get called out. If the encounter was negative, say so.

Looker - I am sure you have been saved by not seeing someone that some other monger warned about in a negative review. You need to do the same for your fellow mongers when you have a bad experience
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Exactly. Honesty is what makes the reviews work well - and why when bullshit reviews are posted here, they get called out. If the encounter was negative, say so.

Looker - I am sure you have been saved by not seeing someone that some other monger warned about in a negative review. You need to do the same for your fellow mongers when you have a bad experience Originally Posted by berryberry
That's sometimes depends on the reviewer........ I've seen guys call a girl a spinner or average when she isnt close to that in my eyes. I've seen guys bitch and give a negative review for things that in my mi d shouldn't be. Some guys over react one way or the other. Based on their opinions s. A review imho should first be based on safety and then hygiene. Everything else is very subjective to each person.
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That's sometimes depends on the reviewer........ I've seen guys call a girl a spinner or average when she isnt close to that in my eyes. I've seen guys bitch and give a negative review for things that in my mi d shouldn't be. Some guys over react one way or the other. Based on their opinions s. A review imho should first be based on safety and then hygiene. Everything else is very subjective to each person. Originally Posted by chizzy
There is no doubt everyone has different tastes and expectations but I think people on this site know that and can judge accordingly. If you had a bad time, you should say so and say why. Let others draw their own opinion.

As I said that earlier - Veterans on this site know which mongers are accurate with their reviews and who have similar tastes in women. Sure, mood / circumstances can always change things, but if a trusted monger posts details of a very good experience, then it is highly likely others will have a similar experience. And if they post of a bad one, it is pretty likely others could experience the same.

But you can't even get there if some guy is too afraid to give someone a negative review if they had a bad time
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The only thing I missed about Indys was that vouching was a easy way to earn credibility and status.
Reviews are generally worthless unless you are trying to determine the likelihood you’ll get arrested or ripped off. Mood, circumstances, need, just about anything can change things and where most of your ladies are found the variables are endless. Add on the varying tastes in looks and technique and even the best of intentions are at best a shot in the dark.

The reviews here are even more worthless because they need to be 80% negative to fit into the bro club, that is why you see all the yes recommendations after the horror story typo. It’s the opposite of the useless TER ones where they are all penthouse letters detailing how the reviewer made the lady cum 75 times. Originally Posted by MorganOBM
Morgan, I must respectfully disagree with you on this. Please be aware that I’m not speaking of you personally here (I don’t know you do I am in no position to judge how you conduct yourself), but there are many more issues that can come out in reviews other than safety and hygiene.

I agree on looks, one man’s opinion means little; different guys have different tastes. However, pics are available for most prospective providers. Not all, but a significant number of providers use pics that are either completely fake or misleading. Reviews can help point out providers who do this. It’s not necessarily a deal breaker if a provider does this, but if I go into a session expecting a spinner based on pics and she turns out to have put on 50 lbs since those pics were taken, I’m going to experience a level of disappointment that would likely ruin the session. Finding out ahead of time from reviews avoids that disappointment.

Performance is also an issue with some providers. Here, you are right that it can depend on circumstances, chemistry etc., but if it’s an isolated issue related to circumstances then there should be limited negative reviews. If a provider has 10 reviews on here and 9 say she was great and one says she’s a dead fish, then ok. If it’s 9 dead fish reviews and one great one, chances are she’s not going to go be a very good session. Again reviews can help weed this out.

I get YMMV, and I rarely refuse to see a provider based only on bad reviews (unless it is a safety issue). However, I do use them as a guideline to assist in choosing providers who are more likely to give an enjoyable encounter.
AmishGangster's Avatar
To quote Berry’s truth:

Indys = provider centric
Eccie = guy centric

Indys reviews = mostly overglorified fantasy penthouse forum BS
Eccie reviews = far more raw and far more honest in most cases

Those 2 things explain just about everything else if you understand them.
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To quote Berry’s truth:

Indys = provider centric
Eccie = guy centric

Indys reviews = mostly overglorified fantasy penthouse forum BS
Eccie reviews = far more raw and far more honest in most cases

Those 2 things explain just about everything else if you understand them. Originally Posted by AmishGangster

the buggy master has spoken..........
MorganOBM's Avatar
That's sometimes depends on the reviewer........ I've seen guys call a girl a spinner or average when she isnt close to that in my eyes. I've seen guys bitch and give a negative review for things that in my mi d shouldn't be. Some guys over react one way or the other. Based on their opinions s. A review imho should first be based on safety and then hygiene. Everything else is very subjective to each person. Originally Posted by chizzy
This was exactly my point, I'm not doubting anyone's honesty. I think we've all seen a review of a girl that sounded like a supermodel that we have met that we thought was ok and we've probably seen a blah review of a girl we thought was quite beautiful. Add on that thing you love that she does might be the thing that kills someone else's erection lol and Bob's recommendation is never going to be better than clear, accurate and recent photos with a general idea of services.
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I've heard a lot of guys say it's to protect them from inaccurate photos and that just sucks. I'd have to say all of the good providers I know from Pittsburgh, Ashley, DG, Winter, PA, CG etc that I've met in person look exactly like their photos or much better. I guess some of the sites with weird angled photos are strange. I'm a big fan of truth in advertising so no good answer for that one. I'm 5'9" size 12 and 40, so according to berry fat and old (kinda like my bank account) haha but I schedule well and I think it's important to be honest. Some girls will never understand that.
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To quote Berry’s truth:

Indys = provider centric
Eccie = guy centric

Indys reviews = mostly overglorified fantasy penthouse forum BS
Eccie reviews = far more raw and far more honest in most cases

Those 2 things explain just about everything else if you understand them. Originally Posted by AmishGangster
Most of my reviews here are a copy and paste of the review posted on Indys.

All reviews everywhere are over glorified penthouse forums. Ask any sex worker. The last review of me on indys said I called him “daddy” I’ve never ever called a man Daddy in the bedroom. Ever.
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I've heard a lot of guys say it's to protect them from inaccurate photos and that just sucks. I'd have to say all of the good providers I know from Pittsburgh, Ashley, DG, Winter, PA, CG etc that I've met in person look exactly like their photos or much better. I guess some of the sites with weird angled photos are strange. I'm a big fan of truth in advertising so no good answer for that one. I'm 5'9" size 12 and 40, so according to berry fat and old (kinda like my bank account) haha but I schedule well and I think it's important to be honest. Some girls will never understand that. Originally Posted by MorganOBM
Morgan - nothing wrong with being fat and old . It is just that when guys choose who to spend money on, they want to do so on someone that fits their taste. And I gather a lot of guys here like young and thin vs fat and old. Doesn't mean there isn't a market, everyone has different tastes. But the fact is this area is missing most of the young and thin providers that used to be around - and thus what is left are older and bigger providers.

And speaking of different tastes, even someone who doesn't like big girls may occasionally have a hankering for something different. Shoot, I even saw you once even though you are far from my preferred body type (I am not a big boob guy - my ideal are thin spinners and B cups are more than plenty). This was back in the earlier Indy's days and you knew my type from having access to the guys rooms as an admin because you even warned me when I reached out to you that you were a big girl and didn't think you fit my type. I don't think you had a ton of pics out then and I said I was in the mood for something different and didn't mind someone a bit bigger. And you warned me that you were a lot bigger, lol. Actually I really appreciated your honesty and still saw you. Truth in Advertising is best. I wish most girls understood that.
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Lol, I have almost a cult following and I remember saying something to a regular about being a boob guy that saw me twice a week and he's like not at all I just really enjoy you. I'm actually much smaller and look younger than ever compared to my earlier days, better living and talented plastic surgeons. My reviews were way over hyped in my 20s, I see my old pics and scratch my own head but hey I am great in bed.
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Lol, I have almost a cult following and I remember saying something to a regular about being a boob guy that saw me twice a week and he's like not at all I just really enjoy you. I'm actually much smaller and look younger than ever compared to my earlier days, better living and talented plastic surgeons. My reviews were way over hyped in my 20s, I see my old pics and scratch my own head but hey I am great in bed. Originally Posted by MorganOBM
Yes, I didn't want to be the one to say it and have it taken the wrong way, but from your pics, you do look much smaller and a lot hotter these days. Kudos for what you have done