Mia, great post. Paying women to get him only feels good for a few minutes. The guilt lasts all day long. Also, you talk of cutting him off, good for you to not be a part of that. Guilt of a provider having sex with a married men, lmao. He sounds like the extreme of guilt. He should grow a spine and divorce her. If she cannot or is unwilling to make any effort to satisfy some of his needs, he should leave and find someone that cares for him. Seeing providers does not help him, she does not care for him, just wants his cash. It is a release nothing else. Originally Posted by gentlemantoo
Why can’t we just be thankful that our fat ugly asses have a way to meet beautiful women and explore each other sexually that we would not be able to have in the real world. Most of these ladies wouldn’t even give us the time for drink. That’s probably why most of us are on here anyway because you have no game. But now that your on here and getting some with hot ladies that you could only jack off to normally you are going to screw it up with emotions and feelings. Move on. Come on guys. Fuck em all and have fun Originally Posted by curious247Agree, this is not complicated. I offer another scenario on why we visit ECCIE. You may have game but girlfriends can be very complicated. There are expectations, phone calls, text messages, email and breaking up is very hard to do when expectations go beyond just "the other woman." That is a scenario where things can spin out of your control with unintended consequences, mostly bad. A famous actor, name escapes me, once was asked why he payed for sex when he could have any beautiful woman he wanted in Hollywood. His answer was, "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to not be here in the morning." That is the beauty of ECCIE and the lovely ladies we find on the site. ECCIE is a business platform where providers advertise and hobbyists can pay to play!
Yes, I do feel guilt, but not enough to stop. I have a wonderful wife of 50+ years in every way except no sex for the last 15 years. I don't like the lying and cheating. It would be devastating to her if she knew and I don't want to hurt her. Devastating to me also if she found out, but I live with it and keep on seeing a selective few. Originally Posted by midvale
Yes. Over the years, I've had Clients confess their guilty feelings to me. They love their wives but something is missing; so they see a Provider. Gentlemen with hearts and a conscience are some of my faves! Originally Posted by AshleyoflebanonHear, hear, someone that understands and has compassion.
Since this thread went deeper than I thought I’m going to elaborate on my original statement.This sounds like the equivalent of being caught with cigarettes as a kid. Then your parents locking you in a closet with a carton of unfiltered Camels until you finished them all.
I’m the type of asshole that was getting plenty at home, but got tired of the routine and wanted to experience someone different. I’d only been with her and we’ve been together since high school and I do love her. I really thought I would do it one time and would feel really guilty to finally get that crazy idea of fucking someone else out of my head.
Guess what happened? I enjoyed it more than I thought and I did not feel guilty at all. Not one bit. I then started hobbying about once a week on average. There were times I would see a provider during the day and turn around and fuck my wife later that evening.
My wife did eventually find out. Yes, we are still married. She has been devastated, but I still really don’t feel guilty, more annoyed with her constant outbursts and angry I can’t really hobby anymore. She is practically demanding sex nearly everyday now, but it really is starting to feel like a dreaded chore and the routine I was getting bored with in the first place is becoming worse. Not sure where it goes from here... Originally Posted by Sir Axl