upsell due to overweight?

You are sooo funny Amberdoll.. but soo true.

SL, you don't want a smart chick ... too bad I am a smart azz...lol

Shes Probably Just Trying To Make Up For The .60 Special Originally Posted by AmberDoll

TFF Amberdoll!!! Hey girl, enjoy your time in Ar, give me a shout if you need any help with anything

Hook up with Sweetn Lil , she will do you right baby... lets us know how it goes.
So damn cute and sexy.

oh I see the humor for sure Amberdoll , don't get me started on the jokes lol

Its all about the money! LOL

I get it. There is a big difference between a bit overweight and severely obese and I can't fault someone for this particular preference. All the PC terms in the world won't change the fact that when a guy gets to 300 pounds it is damn near a disability. Someone mentioned in the "wash your ass" thread that they put baby powder on their junk to prevent sweating and I have come across that with very heavy men. After a certain point, it isn't just erectile issues but finding something to stimulate as well. Big fat pads in that area serve to "shrink" the penis and it can be very difficult to provide full service. If she wants to charge more for that.......well, I can't blame her. Some people upsell greek, she upsells to deal with clients that do actually require more work. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

This was a very well-thought-out response, but I just couldn't help but chuckle at the phrase "fat pad" and how it can "shrink" the penis. My first thought was, pinch off 9" of that ole fat pad, slip a cock ring around the bottom, and ride it like a cowgirl.

IMO I'm not gonna pay extra cuz I'm a big guy. I'm 6'4 330 and if a provider don't want to see me thats fine. Some women ain't into big guys and thats cool. A lot of guys ain't into big women and that just leaves more for me. At least she puts it out there and it's not a surprise when you show up.
As for the comment that someone my size requires more work or it's a disability, I'll take that bet.

Hmmm... I don't like it. I wouldn't care if she decided not to see big guys at all, but the price difference? How would everyone feel if a provider said, "Sure I'll see black guys... for $100 extra."

Just my 2 cents. Originally Posted by sketchball82

That was my first through too. Why wouldn't you just say that you don't see overweight guys? If she must charge extra to force herself to handle an overweight client will she really provide good service? You're right, it's just like saying "black guys for $100 extra" vs "no black guys", would you really pay $100 more just to have this girl deal with you? Chances are you'd just be disappointed.

I also think the reasoning that it's OK to charge extra because it's "more work" IF a 300lb guy with a 4" tool hidden under 9" of fat shows up is not sound either. What would you do different for him for the extra money? You can't make him lose weight or help him grow a few inches. Guys know exactly how well their junk functions. Just do what you can and if you can't do much, well it's just something for him to deal with. He may be happy with whatever attention he got, and if he's not then he shouldn't complain unless he's a total a-hole.

A person can't lose 100lb over night and can't change their race at all. So charging extra for these things is not the same as charging extra for greek or a particular act. Specific acts are basically just fetishes and a good time can be had without those acts. Sure a client may be a hardcore paraphiliac and won't get off without that fetish, but then it's his fault and he should have done his research as to what you do/don't do.

Providers should just state the types of guys they can't handle, ie; young, old, white, black, asian, overweight, underweight, etc... Everyone has limits and it's better to just be adult about it. You wouldn't advertise $100 more for guys that smell like piss and sweaty balls right???

Most gals love us chubby guys!

Hmmm... I don't like it. I wouldn't care if she decided not to see big guys at all, but the price difference? How would everyone feel if a provider said, "Sure I'll see black guys... for $100 extra."

Just my 2 cents. Originally Posted by sketchball82

Its her business. A very personal business. She or any other provider has the right to refuse service to anyone or charge what she wants. Its not upselling if stated in ad as an extra. She also stated her height and weight.
If you don't like it. Just move along. Just my 102 cents worth.

If you don't like it. Just move along. Just my 102 cents worth. Originally Posted by LadyRed

I have every right to comment obout it. Who are you to tell me to move along.

I have every right to comment obout it. Who are you to tell me to move along. Originally Posted by simpleton

A member of this site. One with as much right to comment as you or any other member. You might not like what someone says but they certainly have the right to say it (within the rules of the board of course)

A member of this site. One with as much right to comment as you or any other member. You might not like what someone says but they certainly have the right to say it (within the rules of the board of course) Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

So she can tell people what to do? Give me a break. And I didn't say anything out of bounds. If she has a right to speak her mind I clearly should have a right to speak my mind. And her telling people to move along is bs. She was the one telling people to move along which means shut the fuck up just a different way to say it. You should quote her and tell her not to be so bossy. Give me a break telling people to move along. Again who is she to tell anybody to move a long. And if she doesn't like what people post she should just move a long.Which is her own words of wisdom which don't seem to apply to her. Go figure.

So she can tell people what to do? Give me a break. And I didn't say anything out of bounds. If she has a right to speak her mind I clearly should have a right to speak my mind. And her telling people to move along is bs. She was the one telling people to move along which means shut the fuck up just a different way to say it. You should quote her and tell her not to be so bossy. Give me a break telling people to move along. Again who is she to tell anybody to move a long. And if she doesn't like what people post she should just move a long.Which is her own words of wisdom which don't seem to apply to her. Go figure. Originally Posted by simpleton

Last time I saw a RED SNAPPER with a mouth like that, it had a hook in it! LOL I'm a sucker for red heads!