...and that's right, I'm posting it right here and not in the ladies area...I can't stand it when you men act crazy! Originally Posted by caroline!Some men are compelled to act crazy, caroline. What's your excuse?
No drama? Pardon me, but how much more dramatic could you possibly have been, not only in your initial post but also in every post since then? I haven't read anything else you've said elsewhere, but is this par for the course for you (as it is for your gal pal, Heather) or has this one incident just put you over the edge?
Why did you post this in the National Main Discussion Forum? Obviously you could have just sent him a text.
Did you intend to embarrass your harasser in front of as many souls as possible? Sorry, but unless I know of a 50 year old 'vette driver in your area (I do, interestingly, but he's not crazy like your guy) and know or suspect he's one of the fortunate few who scored an appointment with you, I have no way to know who the man is so that I might subject him to the opprobrium and scorn he so richly deserves. Zero there.
And by the way, it is indiscreet of you to blurt out those details. Age and automobile certainly could apply to many, but they are great clues for someone who might be snooping him out. I would think that would even apply to your sweetie with the 'ghini -- there are so few of those on the road in any area that that clue alone would narrow it down to a handful. Is this what happens when you flip out?
But back to my question -- did you post here because this guy just frazzled your last nerve, and he reminded you of all those other shallow, maladjusted tricks who just saw you as a "slab of meat" (to borrow one of Heather's delicate phrases) instead of a real person (these would be the "you men" you wound up your rant with) and you just wanted to come in here and tell 'em all off? Or something like that?
Zero there, too, caroline. Double ought, in fact. First, when you chose to be a prostitute you pretty much guaranteed an endless supply of gentlemen who are poorly adjusted socially and sexually, all present company excluded. (It was pretty certain that "Mr. Wonderful" was not gonna join the fracas. But he may find it stimulating to be the subject of all this passion. Reckon he's masturbating?) Anyway, it does not "excuse" the abysmal behavior you've described. It might, however, cause some to think that you should bear in silence the discomfort of the occasional, sadly predictable bump along the road you've chosen. Or at least that you would voice your grievance in a civil manner, respectful of the many well-mannered men who would want to see what you were talking about, rather than with male-generalized acrimony and gratuitous profanity that soils the atmosphere of this place, and needlessly offends some of the community (even if they be post hoes).
The second zero is this: Even if this guy and all those "other guys" read your post, it will not have any beneficial effect (you hope for that, right?) and could just as easily do the opposite. Unlike the gents who have responded here (well adjusted but occasionally like to bang a hooker) the men who've tortured you will likely not respond well to cursing and shame (if they feel any). They'll go right on mistreating sex workers, and they'll use your coarseness on this thread as another justification for why "the whores" deserve it.
One more thing -- this is a discussion board. No one has to start a thread for discussion. But once he does, it's open territory. All of it, OP's "attitude" included. You may like to hear "BADASS" (ouch!) but when you put it all out there and then when critiqued or questioned for details you come back with personal insults and, "Whaa you can't talk about that," it makes you look weak and silly. You're the one who brought it up.
