What's a HJ worth?

Why is it that guys dislike talking on the phone so much? I dislike writing emails. So I guess it makes things pretty even. After screening through email, I would much prefer a couple of phone calls. But I'll warn you I can be pretty chatty. Originally Posted by Ansley

I hate talking on the phone. I love to talk to people in person, but feel terribly uncomfortable on the phone.

I don't save it all for liberal lawyers. It would be any person that discredited my beliefs and tried to cram their own agenda down my throat.

Back to expensive hand jobs and chatty conversations. lol Originally Posted by Ansley

I've never heard it called an agenda.

I've never heard it called an agenda. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Maybe you would if it was hitting your tonsils.

I've never heard it called an agenda. Originally Posted by pjorourke

you may not have a big enough agenda to warrant such a reference

Maybe you would if it was hitting your tonsils. Originally Posted by Ansley

word! you just beat me to the punch, funny lady

PJ may be on to something.A longer appointment with a lower volume escort may really help your experience.There are some awesome women out there in the 400 to 700 range. Originally Posted by Becky

OK, I'm going to be in Dallas later this month. So, I thought I'd take your (& PJ's) advice. So I looked around in the 400-700 range. But they quickly turned out to be 800-1200. Reason: I refuse to do incalls. All ladies doing outcalls required a 2-3 hour minimum for the outcall. There was one lady that was 600/hr at this time last year who is now 800/hr. I was a little stunned at this since the economy seems to have affected the whole industry, but I guess there are just some providers that don't feel the sting of this economy.

Anyway, just thought I would report back. No "awesome" ladies for me, I guess.

OK, I'm going to be in Dallas later this month. So, I thought I'd take your (& PJ's) advice. So I looked around in the 400-700 range. But they quickly turned out to be 800-1200. Reason: I refuse to do incalls. All ladies doing outcalls required a 2-3 hour minimum for the outcall. There was one lady that was 600/hr at this time last year who is now 800/hr. I was a little stunned at this since the economy seems to have affected the whole industry, but I guess there are just some providers that don't feel the sting of this economy.

Anyway, just thought I would report back. No "awesome" ladies for me, I guess. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I'm no Dallas expert, but Toots can't find anybody to come to his hotel room and knock his socks off (once) for six bills???:wavetowel 2:

Somebody help a brother out :wavet owel2:

But I'll warn you I can be pretty chatty. Originally Posted by Ansley

You? na no way

Charles,

After reading all of your replies and what you have quoted as your experiences with the ladies that you have seen, I wonder why that the numbers are so low. I must ask you if you think that you are entering the session or arrangement only as a "Fuck and Bang" ordeal or do you think you are looking for the "Illusion of Passion"?

To me it seems that you are entering the game with a young lady with limited ventures and expectations on your part, you seem (In my mind, no dis-respect) very negative as soon as you start the session.

Personally I never let a review steer me in seeing a lady (I'm a big YMMV believer), if I am attracted to her phyisically first, I drop a email, feel out the reply and then start conversation, via both email and phone, I don't over board that with abuse to waste her time, but after a minute or two of conversation, I have a pretty damn good idea if we are going to click or not, if so, I drop an email and request a plan to share time together. I walk into game day with 120% that I am going to have a good time, and it rarely fails when I have the right attitude going in.

Oh I never talk prices or sex on the phone, if I hear a laugh, a giggle then we are popping in the right direction. A little time ahead of time, and reacting to the moment usually wins for me personally. Over working the deal takes away the element of learning something new while we are together face to face.

No dis-respect to the HDH here, I have seen High Maintenance babes (4 years worth with one along in a private arrangement) to the $225 per hour, there has been great ones even at $225 that could easily charge HDH prices, yes she brought that to the game, its all about selection, chemistry and just letting it happen moment to moment, after all its about having a good time, if you are not, then its best one does not play, after all who wants disappointment all the time?

Texas doesn't count.

Woody--Interesting post.

Oh I never talk prices or sex on the phone

This much I got down pat.

I wonder why that the numbers are so low.

Probably just my physical appearance coupled with my lack of proficiency in the sack. Once or twice on this Board I've said I imagine the ladies leave my room trying to keep from laughing, and it's probably not far from the truth.

I must ask you if you think that you are entering the session or arrangement only as a "Fuck and Bang" ordeal or do you think you are looking for the "Illusion of Passion"?

From my experience, it's been the provider's attitude that created the blow an go session. I had one provider rush me to pop in 15 minutes and then left. I had paid for an hour and got, at the most 20 minutes, and she was out the door. The lady had a good rep, too. She was on the rag, never told me, and then gave other guys excellent times a week later. I guess this makes your YMMV point, but to me it was just a rip off.

I walk into game day with 120% that I am going to have a good time, and it rarely fails when I have the right attitude going in.

With the experiences I've had, it's hard for me to do this.

its all about selection, chemistry and just letting it happen moment to moment

Guess I failed this course.
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BTW, here is one listing I found while browsing:

1hr - $400 ~ GFE/$500

WTF, 1 hr is $400, but if I want a GFE session, it's $500??? What are we doing in the non-GFE session, sitting in a bar chatting????

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BTW, here is one listing I found while browsing:

WTF, 1 hr is $400, but if I want a GFE session, it's $500??? What are we doing in the non-GFE session, sitting in a bar chatting???? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I'm a little skeptical of any ad that has a bunch of different prices and resembles a McDonalds drive thru menu.

The ones that really crack me up are the ones that have all these prices and then immediately followed by one of those disclaimers ("all monies are for time and companionship only...")

BTW, in some geographies the key distinction between GFE & non-GFE is BBBJ vs CBJ. That may be what the case here.

Isn't that most of what goes on in DC? Originally Posted by pjorourke

I thought it was anal?

I think it depends on who is giving it, no?

I think the HJ is underrated and is an art form all on it own...