Ladies, We'll Contact You, Don't Contact Us.

I really do feel sorry for all you fucktards out there who have to worry about all this S/O nonsense... Perhaps you should just get a safety deposit box to keep your ho phones in. Originally Posted by Valerie

Man, there's some stupid MF's on this website ... just keep your hobby phone in your sock! I mean really, how many times does ANYONE call you on your hobby phone unless they are RETURNING your call?

I assume that anyone who gives me their number is okay with me contacting it. If they are not, they should not give their number out. It is the married / otherwise engaged party's responsibility to keep their shift locked down. Carry a hobby phone, or use a google voice app, then keep them hidden. Giving out your personal number for impersonal liasons is a recipe for disaster, because wives / SO's *DO* find that stuff, and will go through everything until they barf in your shoes. Have your bills go to the office or a p.o. box, or better yet, pre pay with cash that you pull out when you buy groceries. There are a ton of threads on this and other sites on how to cover your tracks, so please don't get mad at the ladies because you chose not to do so. This is a fun hobby, fraught with risk, which makes it more fun... But don't take stupid risks. Originally Posted by theCFE

What constitutes giving the number? Don't get me wrong, I happen to agree that it is the responsibility of the cat to cover his own shit.
Since I haven't seen you I don't know if this is how you operate or not but generally the hobbyist calls or texts the provider( fucktard and hooktard to some) at some point even if it is the final room/apt # communication. Most providers use a two call system that is pretty well established in the community.

CFE, If I make that call to you and you now have my number on your phone have I "given" you my number and thereby implied my consent for you to call me or does it need to be verbally communicated, ie "here is my number, call me"? Do I need to tell you specifically to lose my number after our meeting?

I get unsolicited E-Mails, PMs and text messages. If I am interested, I respond.

Its all about marketing and its just fine with me.

Either tell the provider its not ok to contact you or keep your hobby phone and the bill (or go paperless with hobby email) at the office.

If you have an SO, its not a matter of IF you will get caught, its a matter of WHEN.

Welcome to the club babe....mine has learned MSOG...ha ...tells you what a naughty minx I am... Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

Yeah really, I'm kind of curious now to see what other terms my phone's going to start to learn.

One of my guys learned his lesson when the wifey audited his cell phone bill. He keeps separate bills from her but she got curious one day.

He now has a dedicated hobby phone which is fondly referred to as his YummyPhone :-) Originally Posted by YummyMarie

The dummy should just use his neighbor's phone, it works great for me.

All I am trying to say is contact me through a PM on ECCIE or P411, not through a text message or e-mail on my phone, unless I have contacted you first. I don't mind being contacted, just please be discreet about it.

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be contacted, just make that clear when you first contact someone. Also, women have excellent intuition, so I'm going to put this out there for anyone who hasn't heard of it. You can Google Rhoula & Ryan's Roses and come up with more, but this is an example and there's a new one every Thursday morning. So, if someone calls and offers you roses, a spa package, etc., and you have a wife or SO, always send it to them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVu62yO1h4M

Don't say I never gave you anything guys, lol.



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There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be contacted, just make that clear when you first contact someone. Also, women have excellent intuition, so I'm going to put this out there for anyone who hasn't heard of it. You can Google Rhoula & Ryan's Roses and come up with more, but this is an example and there's a new one every Thursday morning. So, if someone calls and offers you roses, a spa package, etc., and you have a wife or SO, always send it to them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVu62yO1h4M

Don't say I never gave you anything guys, lol.



~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

I cannot believe people fall for that. Honestly....are they that dumb that they would give personal info to an unsolicited third party?

And the the wife/so is no better...if the only way you can find out about and 'fix' your relationship is by tricking someone, your relationship is already dead anyhow.

Ugh.

What constitutes giving the number? Don't get me wrong, I happen to agree that it is the responsibility of the cat to cover his own shit.
Since I haven't seen you I don't know if this is how you operate or not but generally the hobbyist calls or texts the provider( fucktard and hooktard to some) at some point even if it is the final room/apt # communication. Most providers use a two call system that is pretty well established in the community.

CFE, If I make that call to you and you now have my number on your phone have I "given" you my number and thereby implied my consent for you to call me or does it need to be verbally communicated, ie "here is my number, call me"? Do I need to tell you specifically to lose my number after our meeting? Originally Posted by boardman

I never call, nor accept calls, because I have my own litterbox to deal with. Texts, when discreetly worded, are a lot easier to pass off as work related than a sultry female voice. I do text a discreet message to someone who has sent a request with their cell phone number attached. If they respond, I respond back, and the scheduling goes from there. Scheduling with me can be tricky, so I find text offers the quickest response time for that task. I let them know that I will send a direction text the night before; the idea being that it will be waiting for them in the morning when they turn their hobby phone on. I don't send "Hey, baby, wanna come see me?" messages unsolicited; although I will send a thank you message after they leave, I try to do so in a timely manner. I try to keep my messages concise and professional, but I tend to follow my partner's lead.

I do not save contacts, due to my litterbox. If I have a repeat request, I ask them to text me reminding me of who they are. I have a few frequent fliers who I have an understanding with, who I send my schedule first before posting to Twitter. The extent of this is, "I am available Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday." (for example) As an MT, this is easily explainable and not sexually suggestive - it doesn't even have to be from a female, unless the other party has failed to delete my messages or has added me to their phone list (don't do that, guys).

If people do not want me to contact them via text, it is as simple as stating in their request, "Contact through p411, please." I don't bite, and am more than happy to abide by requests when they are made. If you for sure, definitely, 100% don't want a provider contacting you via text or call, it should be simple enough to hide your number on your p411 profile. You may miss out on special offers, as previously stated, but that may be worth it to those who insist on needlessly sticking their fat in the fire by not getting a hobby phone.

I get unsolicited E-Mails, PMs and text messages. If I am interested, I respond.

Its all about marketing and its just fine with me.

Either tell the provider its not ok to contact you or keep your hobby phone and the bill (or go paperless with hobby email) at the office.

If you have an SO, its not a matter of IF you will get caught, its a matter of WHEN. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

+more than 1!

I never call, nor accept calls, because I have my own litterbox to deal with. Texts, when discreetly worded, are a lot easier to pass off as work related than a sultry female voice. I do text a discreet message to someone who has sent a request with their cell phone number attached. If they respond, I respond back, and the scheduling goes from there. Scheduling with me can be tricky, so I find text offers the quickest response time for that task. I let them know that I will send a direction text the night before; the idea being that it will be waiting for them in the morning when they turn their hobby phone on. I don't send "Hey, baby, wanna come see me?" messages unsolicited; although I will send a thank you message after they leave, I try to do so in a timely manner. I try to keep my messages concise and professional, but I tend to follow my partner's lead.

I do not save contacts, due to my litterbox. If I have a repeat request, I ask them to text me reminding me of who they are. I have a few frequent fliers who I have an understanding with, who I send my schedule first before posting to Twitter. The extent of this is, "I am available Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday." (for example) As an MT, this is easily explainable and not sexually suggestive - it doesn't even have to be from a female, unless the other party has failed to delete my messages or has added me to their phone list (don't do that, guys).

If people do not want me to contact them via text, it is as simple as stating in their request, "Contact through p411, please." I don't bite, and am more than happy to abide by requests when they are made. If you for sure, definitely, 100% don't want a provider contacting you via text or call, it should be simple enough to hide your number on your p411 profile. You may miss out on special offers, as previously stated, but that may be worth it to those who insist on needlessly sticking their fat in the fire by not getting a hobby phone. Originally Posted by theCFE

Thancks for the clarification...I thinck.

unless the other party has failed to delete my messages or has added me to their phone list (don't do that, guys). Originally Posted by theCFE

But.. but... what if I -want- the SO to find your phone number in the phone!?!?

Guys - just get a burner hobby phone and keep it hidden at your work or in your car. Tracphone doesn't even have a monthly charge and can be refilled with cards you can buy with cash so you don't even have to worry about a paper trail (unless you're stupid and keep your receipts from it around).

I only text my regulars about specials and that is it. If they dont want me to do it they politely tell me and thats that. The end.

It's like you're a bunch of fucking Walter Whites out there, except it's hookers instead of EDIT BY STAFF: DRUG REFERENCE... use common sense fucktards.

It's like you're a bunch of fucking Walter Whites out there, except it's hookers instead of EDIT BY STAFF: DRUG REFERENCE... use common sense fucktards. Originally Posted by klutz

Women and common sense is like oil and water...ijs.