Cancellations

Have I had to cancel on a provider that was a legit excuse, Yes! I did give her over 24 hrs notice to where she could try to pick someone else up in my alotted time frame. With me giving her a generous amount of time for the cancellation notice, I was able to see her the next time when she was in town. I think its just common couresty to let someone know immediately of any plans that changed.

Knock on wood but...

In 3 years, Ive never been NCNSed nor have I ever done it to anyone. Last minute cancellations, yes, (both ways) but those should be few and far between.

I certainly understand your point(s) ... since my job involves taking care of people who just went through a hurricane, or tornado, or severe flooding ... I sometimes have advance notice that I may be working hundreds of CAT claims but not always ... so, if I'm booked with you, and am called to a tornado ravaged town to help people that just, in the blink of an eye and with little warning, lost everything ... I should keep my appointment with you, rather than giving you a work excuse, and tell those people to hold on ... I got it!

As has been noted ... life happens. I have had to cancel before, and almost always because I got called to go here, or there, and felt bad for cancelling but it was unavoidable. I have had numerous Providers cancel on me, for various reasons, and not once did I write them off ... I've been waiting patiently to see a Provider, and finally she is here and we had things set up (after she cancelled on me last time, for lack of business up here) but now my time is limited because one of my accounts, hit hard by Hurricane Irene, is coming to see me earlier than scheduled so we can get through his losses on Irene and start working on those for TS Lee, in hopes of saving his company ... it is life, real life, and I'd always put them ahead of a Provider.

In the end, being respectful of others is Rule 1. I realize there are guys, and ladies, that just wanna raise hell and are terribly disrespectful to everyone ... but remember, not every guy lies about having something come up such that he needs to cancel ... there are good guys in the Hobby!

I respect both you and Rabbit's opinions, BUT this is why I do not re-book with anyone who cancels on me. Simple. If I am professional enough to give a guy money off when I cancel, and he can't give me the same courtesy...see ya. I am not a 24/7, available every day type provider, and guys know this going in. I can't make it that easy unless I am on tour of course, but then I am not exactly sitting around wanting to screen last minute when I am already working.

Obviously, that does not work for everyone in this business but you have to understand I don't book 3 and 4 guys a day. If someone cancels, I can't just call the next one on the list. This is why so many girls double book btw...so if one does cancel, they are covered. I may just have to start doing that.

To answer your question rrabbit, no a hotel does NOT refund my money when I cancel. They don't just get a cancellation fee...they get it all. That goes for airfare as well. Many doctors I see make me pay in advance if I don't use my insurance for something like cosmetic surgery...they get a deposit.

I am not saying I expect guys to do this, but on the same token I don't have to book with them again. Why would I want to risk them cancelling yet again because of "work" lol. Nah...I'm good. Originally Posted by London Rayne

why does this constantly happen to you while others have never had it happen. heres the thing a guy see your avatar or pics and his dick gets hard and thinks man i gotta bang that and makes an appointment for next week. then he either jerks off to your pic and when he goes soft thinks i wouldn't really spend that kinda money.. or in the next few days he sees pics and reviews of better alternatives at cheaper prices with better attitudes and instead of saying hey i found a girl i would rather bang cause she has better pricing, better attitude better menu he simply tries to be polite and say hey something came up at work.. something did come at work .. his dick but now that he has had time to research he just found a better bang for his buck but he does not feel inclined to insult you so he just tries to be nice. by you stating this is the same ole excuse it must happen time and time again hence theres a reason.. you got any better explanations..

First off, that's ludicrous. Guys know in advance they can see a thousand other girls for cheaper BEFORE even contacting me, so why bother? I am not forcing anyone to see me. Then men I see are not worried about my price and it's obvious they must find something that keeps them coming back lol. I had zero reviews on Eccie until my so called "attitude" came out...now I have 16, and all from the National forum lol. Food for thought. Not all guys need their ego stroked to feel secure.

I was not talking about the excuses "I" get. I am talking around the board. The number one excuse every provider gets is the work one. I don't get all in a tiffy about it, I simply do not book again with anyone who cancels for any reason. If I have to cancel (2 times in 3 years) you can bet your azz he gets 100 bucks off the next date, and I don't have to do that. Why can't they do the same for me? Luckily, I don't really have to deal with those types of men too often.

Ask the men I see who all say "YES" in my reviews, if I have the attitude you speak of during our date lol. No honey, once you pay me, it's all about you. I simply don't find the need to suck up to the guys to get attention at every turn on a review board...don't have to. Some men need that crap, and others don't. Originally Posted by London Rayne

why does this constantly happen to you while others have never had it happen. heres the thing a guy see your avatar or pics and his dick gets hard and thinks man i gotta bang that and makes an appointment for next week. then he either jerks off to your pic and when he goes soft thinks i wouldn't really spend that kinda money.. or in the next few days he sees pics and reviews of better alternatives at cheaper prices with better attitudes and instead of saying hey i found a girl i would rather bang cause she has better pricing, better attitude better menu he simply tries to be polite and say hey something came up at work.. something did come at work .. his dick but now that he has had time to research he just found a better bang for his buck but he does not feel inclined to insult you so he just tries to be nice. by you stating this is the same ole excuse it must happen time and time again hence theres a reason.. you got any better explanations.. Originally Posted by petiteassman

I'm sorry, but I am a hooker not a social worker so please get help in the proper forum. You can't even dissect what anyone is saying, so I really don't have all day to explain it to you. I never said this is the excuse "I" hear time and again. I said it's the excuse every escort across the board hears more than any other, because it's one that is very common for men who actually have a damn job lol. Dude, there are threads on this bs. Look them up please. 8 out of 10 escorts say the work excuse is the number one reason guys use.

I don't have a problem either way dear. As you can see I have plenty of time to do whatever I want to do and not have to wait by the phone ha ha.

You're kind of scary, talking about jacking off to my photos and then the explination you give after lol. Just altogether creepy. Hate to point out the OBVIOUS dear, but if guys don't like my attitude why are all my reviews on Eccie from guys in NATIONAL where I post the most? Check mate.

YOU don't like my attitude because you need your ego stroked and for women to PRETEND you are so great...well that's what you get AFTER you pay them babe...not here ha ha. Not every guy here is a bargain shopper like you, or no one over 200 would ever make a dime lol. Stop projecting YOUR issues on other people, because guys like you are so few and far between in this biz...thank goodness!

Knock on wood but...

In 3 years, Ive never been NCNSed nor have I ever done it to anyone. Last minute cancellations, yes, (both ways) but those should be few and far between. Originally Posted by Tracey P

+1 Ive had to and been cancelled on numerous times and always for a legitimate reason though it hasn't happened very often.
As much notice possible is always given out of respect.
Never had a ncns, if I did I would probably check the obituaries

why does this constantly happen to you while others have never had it happen. heres the thing a guy see your avatar or pics and his dick gets hard and thinks man i gotta bang that and makes an appointment for next week. then he either jerks off to your pic and when he goes soft thinks i wouldn't really spend that kinda money.. or in the next few days he sees pics and reviews of better alternatives at cheaper prices with better attitudes and instead of saying hey i found a girl i would rather bang cause she has better pricing, better attitude better menu he simply tries to be polite and say hey something came up at work.. something did come at work .. his dick but now that he has had time to research he just found a better bang for his buck but he does not feel inclined to insult you so he just tries to be nice. by you stating this is the same ole excuse it must happen time and time again hence theres a reason.. you got any better explanations.. Originally Posted by petiteassman

The fact that you're imlpying that she gets cancelled on because some guy found a "better and cheaper alternative" is ridiculous. Secondly, I think she was making a general observation and not speaking solely for herself in this situation.
Men have a WIDE VARIETY to choose from. They know that there are girls from all price ranges, all races, all physical shapes - it doesn't seem logical enough to book with someone you chose just to cancel on them to make an appointment with someone else. If that were the case, they would never have booked with the first one.

The fact that you're imlpying that she gets cancelled on because some guy found a "better and cheaper alternative" is ridiculous. Secondly, I think she was making a general observation and not speaking solely for herself in this situation.
Men have a WIDE VARIETY to choose from. They know that there are girls from all price ranges, all races, all physical shapes - it doesn't seem logical enough to book with someone you chose just to cancel on them to make an appointment with someone else. If that were the case, they would never have booked with the first one. Originally Posted by Shayla

+1 So true Shayla...

The fact that you're imlpying that she gets cancelled on because some guy found a "better and cheaper alternative" is ridiculous. Secondly, I think she was making a general observation and not speaking solely for herself in this situation.
Men have a WIDE VARIETY to choose from. They know that there are girls from all price ranges, all races, all physical shapes - it doesn't seem logical enough to book with someone you chose just to cancel on them to make an appointment with someone else. If that were the case, they would never have booked with the first one. Originally Posted by Shayla

Well, I was the one who said it originally ha ha, but thanks sugar! Guys do in fact do that with many touring girls. They book a week out, see someone half price, then cancel with the first...that's their right of course, but it's also the reason so many women won't work without a deposit.

His reasons for justifying it were retarded, because I seriously doubt a guy has the time to think about it that in depth. It's most likely, he got tired of waiting on the touring girl to come to town, had a hard on, and went for the easiest thing that was available right then and there lol. This is why I prefer longer dates that are booked in advance...guys looking for companionship and a real date vs. a quick boink, don't tend to react that way.

This is why I prefer longer dates that are booked in advance...guys looking for companionship and a real date vs. a quick boink, don't tend to react that way. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Why can't guys have it all? Companionship, a date, with enough boinking to last until the next touring girl comes to town. I guess this is where guys have there local girls to fall back on, if there's not enough boinking going on with the touring lady. Sometimes I get fustrated with myself with touring ladies because by the time I get warmed up and get going the session is about over. However, I don't regret seeing the touring ladies because of my short comings. I'm more into the actual experience of trying to make it like a real date knowing that there will be boinking going on.

I haven't had to cancel yet, but I think it needs to be a real reason. Not just that I want to see someone else. If I book an appointment I have considered the price ahead of time.

Yes sometimes I miss seeing someone that is passing through, but it is no excuse to cancel a pre-booked appointment.

Just like in the real world, I want to build a professional relationship with the ladies of this industry so that if something happens, and a I do have to miss, I have credibility.

If I start canceling with every other provider I book with just because I see a different/better deal, I assume that I will start not being able to book with those providers. I may risk getting black listed.

Then I'd be stuck on BP. Not where I want to be.!

I haven't had to cancel yet, but I think it needs to be a real reason. Not just that I want to see someone else. If I book an appointment I have considered the price ahead of time.

Yes sometimes I miss seeing someone that is passing through, but it is no excuse to cancel a pre-booked appointment.

Just like in the real world, I want to build a professional relationship with the ladies of this industry so that if something happens, and a I do have to miss, I have credibility.

If I start canceling with every other provider I book with just because I see a different/better deal, I assume that I will start not being able to book with those providers. I may risk getting black listed.

Then I'd be stuck on BP. Not where I want to be.! Originally Posted by adult146

Good point! But that only works with "Professional Ladies!"

Good point! But that only works with "Professional Ladies!" Originally Posted by Still Looking

Those are the only ones I would want to book with.

Tell me does this sound even remotely believable. "Your email confirmation got put in my junk mail and I didn't see it until after our scheduled date". I kept wondering why she hadn't responded to me, and I just happened to see a message in my junk box, and it was her confirmation. This actually happened to me, with a girl who has since became the girl I have seen the most. Technically I was a NCNS, and she could have easily put me on the DNS list. Some Bullshit excuses are real!

Those are the only ones I would want to book with. Originally Posted by Laz

We all take a walk on the wild side every now and then, but you got it right!