My entire history with her is pretty much limited to 2 appointments. So you, of all people, calling anyone a pawn of SAB (let alone me) is pretty ironic, no?Well, no it is not. The funny thing about irony is how ironic it can be. Here is irony. A few posts ago, you said that you were believing her story more with each post. As you have stated earlier , her story was that I controlled her through her habits , thus making her my pawn. Now you suggest that it is ironic that I , of all people, call you her pawn - thus implying that I was her pawn. Which is it Dovlin? And that ultimate irony is your next quote!
You guys really do need to pay better attention to what i say. Originally Posted by Doove
Maybe it is you who needs to pay more attention to what you say.
Put it to rest Dovelin.
You are going to buy her story that I started and supported her poor health choices and controlled her that way. You base that on her story and that I have posts about my Dom relationship with another woman. One , you don't know me at all, and two, you don't understand the Dom/sub relationship -- which is a partnership. Anyone who knows the old "Saige" would know that she would not allow herself to be randomly controlled and abused. It is a dynamic which you just don't get. I have no need to use habits to control a woman. Not all of us are so pathetic that we need that kind of thing.
As for the other -- I have run several ultramarathons, climbed to the highpoint of all 50 states, and soon to complete the 7 continental summits. I live a healthy lifestyle. I have an office where I have a complete gym for my staff and they get a 90 minute paid workout session every day with the option of a paid personal trainer and massage therapist. They get paid for not smoking , and get bonuses for lowering their weight and cholesterol. I endorse random drug and nicotine testing for me, my SO, and my staff to assure compliance by all. You may consider this "controlling" while I consider it encouraging a healthy lifestyle. Yet you have the gall to accuse me of what you did.
You don't believe it? Put your money where your mouth is. You spew rumors while I give facts. You give me all your personal info and I will give you mine (although she probably has as she is pretty loose with that stuff) and you can check it out if you wish. Please report back to show if it is all true.
So the only irony is that I let that blood sucking lying thieving infection into my life.
I used to respect you when most didn't, and I know you don't give a shit now , but you used to and told me so by PM. In fact, when we came to odds , it gave me pause. As I used to tell the person who is the object of our disagreement (who had conflicts with other women, guys, friends, relatives , and everyone who knew her more than a few weeks), if you are arguing with several people, maybe the problem is not them -- it is you. I have enough introspection to step back and see if that is case with me as I have had some spats with you, jokacz, Lexxxy, MG , and bj (although interestingly MG and bj and I seem to have buried the hatchets). As I looked , I decided that I am comfortable with that , given who I have argued with.
You , on the other hand? The list would be shorter if we tallied who you have NOT had disagreements with. I was one of the last holdouts who used to think you were not malicious , but just misunderstood. Maybe it is time for you to realize that the problem isn't everyone else. It's you.
As for welder -- jury is still out. He may be fine, and maybe not. We will need more data.
