12 a day , eh? How much time do you plan to be spending with your new bride?
Sounds like you may need to educate yourself a bit more before wasting too much time chasing a fantasy.
It
can happen... but not by
seeking it!
Insert any other profession, occupation, career into the equation and think of how you would pursue the same dream. No matter which method you come up with... you will be automatically limiting you chances of success, and excluding waaaaaay too many possibilities.
Good Luck... You're gonna nead it!
Giz
P.S. - Julie... I'll be spending some time near you again soon.... you know what that means