Question for providers?

I MUST SAY THAT LOOKS WERE VERY HIGH UP ON THE LIST WHEN I WAS IN MY 20's....but as I've aged and matured and had lots of life and sexual experience I have found great looking men less attractive to me and almost ALWAYS are so/so at best in the sack...usually very selfish lovers most are used to women chasing them and they don't have to do shit.

Actually I have a lot of hot beautiful friends in my non-hobby life and we all agree the broke guys make the best lovers....and the pretty boys are the worst!!!

SENSE OF HUMOR, LIFE EXPERIENCE, SEXUAL EXPERIENCE AND DESIRE TO PLEASE A WOMAN ARE THE BIGGEST TURN ONS....IN THAT ORDER

Some of the oddest looking clients have been my most pleasing...time wise, sex wise, smarts wise and overall. It's my job (and in my best interest mentally) to find the FUN in this job, and by that, I find the good and the fun in each client that I am going to see. Hopefully I can do part of that before I see them. Otherwise, I do it as I go along. As long as hygiene isn't an issue, we are on a great playing field.

I have had a few, [sexy voice] "oh my"s, where I've been taken completely off my game by a guy's good looks. Really throws me out of whack. Don't get me wrong. I TOTALLY enjoy myself as well, and USUALLY have a great time.

There's been some of these "pretty boys" that are "too good" to do DATY. eyeroll
And even are too good for you to fuck them.
double eyeroll

Which is when you really do have a confidence issue and start feeling like the $5 hooker for a moment. Fuck them fuckers right in the asshole. Don't feel like that. They STILL came to a provider to get their needs met. They are NOT better than you just because they think they are only at a special level that qualifies them for a hhr bj or bng, but nothing more than that with a "hooker"....it's almost to me like a girl saying they are still a virgin because they have only had anal sex.

If you get what I'm trying to say. And I swear, in all my years doing this, it's only been with the "pretty boys". Cut mother fuckers. And yes, I'll still see them, and take their money. Know why? Because they are no better than me or you or any of my clients. They still chose me, because I'm good at what I do. Period.

....steps off soap box....

Some of the oddest looking clients have been my most pleasing...time wise, sex wise, smarts wise and overall. It's my job (and in my best interest mentally) to find the FUN in this job, and by that, I find the good and the fun in each client that I am going to see. Hopefully I can do part of that before I see them. Otherwise, I do it as I go along. As long as hygiene isn't an issue, we are on a great playing field.

I have had a few, [sexy voice] "oh my"s, where I've been taken completely off my game by a guy's good looks. Really throws me out of whack. Don't get me wrong. I TOTALLY enjoy myself as well, and USUALLY have a great time.

There's been some of these "pretty boys" that are "too good" to do DATY. eyeroll
And even are too good for you to fuck them.
double eyeroll

Which is when you really do have a confidence issue and start feeling like the $5 hooker for a moment. Fuck them fuckers right in the asshole. Don't feel like that. They STILL came to a provider to get their needs met. They are NOT better than you just because they think they are only at a special level that qualifies them for a hhr bj or bng, but nothing more than that with a "hooker"....it's almost to me like a girl saying they are still a virgin because they have only had anal sex.

If you get what I'm trying to say. And I swear, in all my years doing this, it's only been with the "pretty boys". Cut mother fuckers. And yes, I'll still see them, and take their money. Know why? Because they are no better than me or you or any of my clients. They still chose me, because I'm good at what I do. Period.

....steps off soap box.... Originally Posted by tntangie

Very well spoken ma'am!!!!

So... maintain excellent personal hygiene... check
Keep the sense of humor I was born with... check
Eat my Wheaties, do my stretches, take my vitamins... check
Be honest and always communicate... check
Don't worry I don't look like I did when I was 20 (thank god!) check
Remember we might not be here to whistle and discuss other people's opinions on physics or the severe problems that Disney is creating with one of the greatest movie franchises ever... check
"Do the Damn thang! "... check
And remember, she gets to have as many earth shattering, ground pounding, profanity inspiring O's until she says "water break please"... check

So... maintain excellent personal hygiene... check
Keep the sense of humor I was born with... check
Eat my Wheaties, do my stretches, take my vitamins... check
Be honest and always communicate... check
Don't worry I don't look like I did when I was 20 (thank god!) check
Remember we might not be here to whistle and discuss other people's opinions on physics or the severe problems that Disney is creating with one of the greatest movie franchises ever... check
"Do the Damn thang! "... check
And remember, she gets to have as many earth shattering, ground pounding, profanity inspiring O's until she says "water break please"... check Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

I love a man that pays attention and applies himself!

And that's not all Kendall...
Along with this amazing offer you'll also get a guy is just fine with taking notes during and is up for having "just like that mother fucker" whispered, spoken or yelled at him.
Whatever she wants, right?

I know exactly what you mean.


I seem to get more nervous/shy around the really good looking guys. Originally Posted by syeira pink

Man...do I have some stories...but I would never openly share those here. I have seen it all and I am glad that they had enough confidence in me to visit and be able to relax and enjoy their time.

However, I have had a handful of extremely handsome gentleman walk through my door that have taken my breathe away, left me speechless, nervous and intimidated by their charm.

And the first time that happened, I broke all the damn rules fell in love LOL
True Story! Mr.TFK and I are still together to this day.


Nevertheless...size, color, age or disability, I have enjoyed all my company.

And that's not all Kendall...
Along with this amazing offer you'll also get a guy is just fine with taking notes during and is up for having "just like that mother fucker" whispered, spoken or yelled at him.
Whatever she wants, right? Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

I just got a little hot and a lot wet!

I just got a little hot and a lot wet! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I'll try not to get too much beauty sleep in the next weeks and see how this note taking help. This thread is very helpful. Please ladies... continue.