Kissing

DFK is gross 98% of the time, that's why. When you're obviously swallowing someone else's spit, having to wipe your mouth clean, or everything else Claire said, gross.

Doing appointments without LFK always felt weird, though, so I madeout with everyone...just delicately.

(Slobber on vag is super gross, too. DATY isn't like a mini blowjob, it's a different beast all together.)

Oh la la! :-) I'm of French descent (French kissing & oral stimulation) and an Aries. This link's info is clearly stated: http://horoscopes.lovetoknow.com/Phy...stics_of_Aries.

Hot make-out sessions with my older bf had me begging to be fucked for the first time. The sucking on my neck drove me CRAZY!!! Good thing I had a ton of hair to cover all the hickeys! *blush* The windows of his truck would be fogged up when we had to leave and my clit throBbing was unbearable without the weight of his body against my crotch, grinding and dry humping... well, I wasn't dry. ;-) I did eventually convince him to go all the way. Mmmhmmm

Finding someone who kisses the way you like it can be difficult so I've had to be proactive and give lessons on occasion. The chemistry between people, the mood at the time, comfort levels, etc... are variants that make each experience different but DANG I get excited when I find someone who does it right!!!

This is where I tie in with the sex positions thread by Iron Butterfly... MISH is so purrfectly conducive to maximum sensory stimulation! Kissing, nipple twisting, clit rubbing and fucking... OH YEAHHH!!!

Thanks for the thread, Reincarnated... :-)

P.S. Now, I'm horny for making out and dry humping!!! LOL

Since we are on the subject of kissing...

Stop trying to wipe off my juices before you kiss me after DATY. Yes, I know the bottom half of your face is soaked and probably about to prune up but dammit I want to taste myself on your lips.
Originally Posted by SA Angel

Since we are on the subject of kissing...

Stop trying to wipe off my juices before you kiss me after DATY. Yes, I know the bottom half of your face is soaked and probably about to prune up but dammit I want to taste myself on your lips.

A bit more on topic, what Tammy said is spot on. For the hot second last summer I tried to have a SO while hobbying I found out real quickly that I could either feel totally genuine with my clients OR my SO. I couldn't be truly myself with both. First, I tried to distance myself emotionally from my sessions. It felt awkward and I realized I wasn't kissing as much. When I said "screw it" and went back to just being myself with my clients things with the BF became weird. It ended after a little over a month and I was soooo relieved.

In short, kissing is very intimate and to be "real" requires both partners to at least kinda like each other. Don't believe me? Forced orgasms are a genre of porn. Forced makeout sessions are not because no one would find it believable. Originally Posted by SA Angel

So hawwwt *yummy*

consider all the germ and disease possibility with fluid exchange done with kissing, herpes, mono, flue, Hepatitis, HPV(warts) glandular fever, colds, meningitis, the exchange of millions of germs. Originally Posted by deerwhisperer

That's all bullshit.

Read the book "Gulp: Adventures of the Alimentary Canal" to see the truth about pathogens and the mouth.

Such as:

Saliva is anti-bacterial for most pathogens and eliminates infection. That's why animals lick there wounds. Saliva like urine is a field-expedient anti-bacterial treatment.

Viruses such as the flu cannot be transmitted by kissing. You can kiss someone with the flu and you will not get it unless you breath that person's breath.

In the 1980s there were claims that people got HIV from oral sex --- turned out to be bullshit.

In fact the mouth and throat are so coated with protective agents and tissues that it's very difficult to get any kind of disease.

Oral Herpes is perhaps the only virus which is the exception, and then only when the donor is visible and shedding.

I love to kiss a guy! But no too much tongue. I dont want u licking my tonsils hun. Lol 😋

There is something about sharing a kiss with someone that creates an instant connection for me and makes it that much more satisfying plus when ur faces are so close together it just creates more intimacy. 💋💋💋

Obviously it's important to me ;-)

Kissing doesn't require a touch of the tonsils

WALDT - we all like different things

Above, obviously applies to both sides of the equation.

Hey, if we all are not here to have fun, at the very least we all here at least ought to enjoy what is we do here.

All varieties of kissing, and many many other variations of activities are quite important to many gents and to many ladies ... and of much lesser importance to other gents and ladies.

Thing is imo we all of us must do proper research if we are to enjoy what it is we are doing here.

OP's initial observation about the diminished aspect of kissing activities appears to be spot on, although we don't have any statistical research as a foundation.

One of the first things I look for in researching a propective encounter is her "K Factor." If that is absent in her profile or in her reviews she's nowhere near the top of my list. My personal evaluation also includes a "weighting" of the reviewers' credibility and reputation.

Obvious other factors, TCB, rate structure, inner and outer beauty, etc. Yes, the red head factor also weighs in.

"Chemistry." Above all, if I've had the opportunity for some personal interaction, such as at a meet and greet, which is way to assess potential chemistry, definite positive points.

Other factors are in obvious play and those are the usual.

If bbbj is the crown jewel in the eccie kingdom,
Then dfk must certainly be the septor

I think the definition of DFK is different to each and his own. I see light FK as just engaging the tongue to lips, and only lightly having tongue to tongue contact with the mouth more closed. Deep FK is when the mouth is more open and the two tongues engage in more entanglement, but not throat fucking or tonsil stabbing as others have described it. Kissing has to build and work up to deeper kissing, just like you don't walk in and shove your cock down a ladies throat.

Just my take!

IB

Kissing, whatever the range of tongue and lips (and I presume, neck, throat, cheeks, eyes, etc.), pales, if the other portions of both persons anatomy is left unexplored, unstimulated and unfinished.

For example, holding hands, or touching the neck or the back of the head, maybe even some gentle hair pulling, etc.

Then there are some possible "add-ons:"

Think of all the "positions" and "places" for just kissing: standing, sitting, prone with legs entwined, one person on a lap, reclining on a hammock, in a phone booth (ask your mom or dad on this one), in an elevator, etc. Back seat of car, front seat of car; park bench and many more.

Are there any providers that just offer make out sessions? A three date expieriance. (First dates) that would be so cool to see a provider, get to know her with conversation, and making out. The first date would just be making out, no sex.
You get to see if you have a connection and the chemistry is good. The second date is more making out, hands under the blouse, hands up her skirt. Third date full on hobby fun.

This takes discipline on both sides and I bet would be amazing.

IB

Love Kissing but on the other hand if my ATF kissed ... I'd have a 4th mortgage on my house by now.