Guy's please explain.....

CIM is nice if you are getting a bbbj, having it yanked out when it is time ruins the whole thing. COF I thnk is just a domination thing, but it is good for the skin

To me COF is degrading to women and I would get
no enjoyment doing it. CIM and COB is OK if both
of you enjoy it. I will admit that CIM is a great finish
and the climax seems more intense but when a lady tells
me that she does not like it I will pull out and warn
her and a HJ finish can be just as satisfying.

COF and COB do nothing for me. I feel it's sort of degrading to the woman. My best ever CIM experience was with a Houston lady. At our first meeting we got naked on the bed for an overnight encounter. The evening time was relatively early (I had her till 7:00am) Just making out and joking and I was enjoying it all. She said "let me give you some attention" and started BBBJ and I'm thinking this is really nice. I never really expected her to go to completion because it seems that most girls pull away and finish off by hand. She kept right on going, I warned her when I was getting close and it just seemed to make her try harder. It was so good because it was unexpected and she stayed there until I was completely done and never once tried to get up or rush things. After a couple of minutes she got up and spit. To me it was the best I've even had. I still think back about that visit and I've spent another overnight with her about a year later. On that visit she didn't provide CIM, I didn't ask as I didn't really care, but she was still fun and I plan on seeing her again this year.

Its the whole "porn fantasy". I prefer the NQCIM with swallow........no cleanup! COF is good if you like that mental pic of your cum on a girls face, and it can also mean a form of humiliation as well.

I think its a control thing. Think about this: what part of the body do women spend the most time with? The face - right? You spend a lot of time trying to make it appear as good as you can. And what is in the middle of your face? You're sexy mouth. It is quite personal and in a guys mind, it might be that getting to cim or cof is like crossing into the forbidden zone. A woman's mouth is quite alluring to me - I sometimes look at ladies in the supermarket and imagine my cock spreading her lips apart. Ok, one more comment about the face of a woman. Men know how much time & care a woman's face gets - its one of the things that separates the sexes. Men, just wash their face, shave, and they're off. Women spend an inordinate amount of time making it look just right and subconsciously, I think that in our mind's, the idea of squirting our ejaculate into your mouth or on your face is crossing into the forbidden zone for just a short time. Everything about you is in your face, your eyes, you lips & mouth, your hair, your pretty cheeks, etc. And like bad little boys, we just got to mess it up! Wow, I'm horny after all that.

geez... this thread was alomst 6 months old when it got bumped today.

JPdM