See-- I disagree. Everyone is here for their own reasons. If he wants a quick "nut and bolt" then that's every bit his right and there are PLENTY of ladies that fit that bill just fine. I won't judge him any more than I'd judge the guy who is the "I want to be the only client today" type. Originally Posted by Grace PrestonPoint well taken Grace.
However, I guess my intention here is wholeheartedly concern for those who get caught up in the trap, never expressing their sensual feelings and going about life thinking this behavior keeps them "safe".
Continuously being emotionally detached and making a habit of it can certainly lead to a very lonely existence.
Just as you stated before, you screen clients and determine who you would click with. I do the same.
I always make sure there is a hint of proposed intimacy on their end.
These are the ones that are most balanced and likely to treat me like a lady instead of a whore.
I am, nor ever will be ashamed for being in this business and hate the persona the public (U.S. mostly) has put upon us.
It is what it is, and much of the male population on these boards roll with it. It is concerning that the younger dudes fall into the mentality that we are just a "cum dump".
That is completely disrespectful just flat out bullshit.
We can't change the world overnight, but doing our part in sharing companionship, pleasure and just being a good friend is a good start.
As far as the girls that play the part of no interest in passion, I can only imagine they are headed for emotional destruction in their life.
They are most likely insecure in themselves and deep down have little self respect.
Eventually they will crave intimacy and true passion, but won't get it because their game plan has been laid out for as long as they know.