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I'm sure all the other women who replied to you in this thread (as well as the one you originally tried to "meet halfway") would love to know who the indiscriminate provider in Rochester is.[/QUOTE]


Does it really matter who it was!!!

Does it really matter who it was!!! Originally Posted by vern0064

It certainly does to me.

If I actually accepted references from other providers I would want to know that this specific provider does not screen unknown and unestablished members as thoroughly as myself or other reputable women, effectively making her vouching for a member worthless to me.

Since I do accept recent reviews written of local, verified providers for screening purposes I would also want to know so that I can again consider a review of her as worthless to me since I know she has lax screening procedures, if she indeed screens at all.

I won't speak for the other women who have posted in this thread, but I would imagine that they share the same sentiments...

Does it really matter who it was!!![/QUOTE]

Actually, it does, to ms_elizabeth. I'm guessing she wants to know who not to take refs from in the future, for her own safety. That person is too wreckless in her opinion. I respect that.

We all need to draw our own lines in a sand and respect where each has chosen to draw theirs.

Thanks Tiger

You are welcome Trojantide.

but then its also true that the only providers that ever outed a guy/s to employer need this info to see her. no names will be given, its still a problem in the back ground. LOL but easy to find in the wikkileak.

as many folks that sent him ref's on providers that dont screen and he's an easy in for them..

there are just as many that look out for those of us that do screen.. and appreciate the fact that we screen..for most it's what draws them to us...and they understand they can trust us with out a doubt..and thats what makes us upscale..our clientèle ..and the fact we network with other quality provider's to make sure we are all safe..
(if a provider contacts me..ill help her as much as i can..cuz i screen my new friends)

when a gent tries to get over on the screening process he usually comes out from that situation in a less than happy and scared as shit thought of "Omfg should i get myself checked!!"

but hey..at least you dint have to screen...sounds like you found a win win!!woohooo!!

honestly..
Im sure that Le really doesn't need you or your companies help busting provider's..im sure they have that part of the situation under control..ijs...but hey im sure they got a fun lil chuckle outa your statement...


id enjoy reading your review as well..not the review part actually ..just the provider's name ..it reconfirms that she's just someone that isnt looking out for the safety of other providers or clients for that matter...she's not looking at the pic as a whole.. just as the here and now..

it goes without saying...if a provider knows she has more to lose than just the time and money it takes to bail her out...she screens..

the word of a trusted provider goes along way with the other provider's..(regardless the past)...they understand their safety is still top priority..I dont want to see another provider go to jail or get hurt or killed..regardless if i had words with that provider or we get along like sister's..if im used as a vouch im gonna make sure i have screened the clients..that way i know another provider will be comfortable and feel safe while entertaining that client..no matter what..and if she doesn't screen and i know that..do you honestly think im gonna rely on that girls word..hell no!! what chu loco??!!

trust..is the #1 ingredient of any relationship...

What guys need to realize is that these ladies aren't screening us just to be a pain in the ass. They're doing it to reduce the risk to themselves. Lets face it, if I go see a provider like Anita, Elizabeth or Lexxxy, who have good longstanding reputations, there is little or no risk for me. All the risk falls on them. Where risk comes into play for guys is when we decide to see some gal on BP in which we know nothing about. We have no idea what kind of situation we could be walking into. That's not the case with ladies like the three I mentioned here. They have a lot vested in what they do and aren't likely to do something that tarnishes their reputation. Guys can sometimes fail to appreciate that some of these ladies are actually working out of their homes. That's a big deal. To have strangers come into your home without some kid of screening process would be reckless.

but then its also true that the only providers that ever outed a guy/s to employer need this info to see her. no names will be given, its still a problem in the back ground. LOL but easy to find in the wikkileak. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

What guys need to realize is that these ladies aren't screening us just to be a pain in the ass. They're doing it to reduce the risk to themselves. Lets face it, if I go see a provider like Anita, Elizabeth or Lexxxy, who have good longstanding reputations, there is little or no risk for me. All the risk falls on them. Where risk comes into play for guys is when we decide to see some gal on BP in which we know nothing about. We have no idea what kind of situation we could be walking into. That's not the case with ladies like the three I mentioned here. They have a lot vested in what they do and aren't likely to do something that tarnishes their reputation. Guys can sometimes fail to appreciate that some of these ladies are actually working out of their homes. That's a big deal. To have strangers come into your home without some kid of screening process would be reckless. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I will agree with that. However where I quote self they had/yet still have longstanding reputations that are good. But guys lost jobs, true not from any in your post

Originally Posted by Tiger

Wash the sand from your vagg!

I will agree with that. However where I quote self they had/yet still have longstanding reputations that are good. But guys lost jobs, true not from any in your post Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

some have..lost jobs..however a provider thats a creative provider does have screening methods in place for this gent..however.. GJ..doesn't fit into that sorta lot..he already acknowledges he has a position somewhere however not about to divulge that info to a lady..different sorta lot dont ya think...

some have..lost jobs..however a provider thats a creative provider does have screening methods in place for this gent..however.. GJ..doesn't fit into that sorta lot..he already acknowledges he has a position somewhere however not about to divulge that info to a lady..different sorta lot dont ya think... Originally Posted by anita germane

true.

The best answer was posted. But almost none will use. lol most will not even see it. Would not know how to use it if put right on lap and told how. Yet its right there easy to see. Easy to do. I know many can't get past screening even if work info not asked and for the same reason . Now before ya cry OSD no fair. Well, not my fault some don't see it in this thread. Works 80% of the time even for a ass like me.

Would work 95% if I was not a ass.

edit: caution when used is a must.