I’m asking provider out on date (would love provider input)

pyramider's Avatar
lots of good advice here hope OP listens ? Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF
The OP should go where the heart/hard-on takes him.
When you ugly and pay hot chicks for a fun date, you still ugly and you still have to pay.
Hot looking and kinky chicks tend to do that to fuckers who don't get asucu in the vanilla world.
Keep it real and keep paying.
You can sometimes have a monthl to month relationship, if you pay all her bills and some spending cash. That's better than being married where the other half has access to all your money.
ICU 812's Avatar
How many ways can this go wrong?

So you do go out on aa few civi-style dates; dinner and dancing or a movie, and maybe even an extended bcd or overnight. Suppose that the next time you call to share some quality time together on a weekend away. . . .and she says she has plans. Is she booked for the weekend with eight or ten other hobbyists from this board? Cucolding: That is kind of a turn-on for some. You might see the reviews . . .with pictures . . .here or on another site.

If the relationship evolves further than a few dates: Will you want her to not see anyone during the dsy before your evening-out? ill yiou want her to stop providing altogether and get a Real-World job?
Been there. Done that. Epic mistake. I've been in and out of the hobby for nearly 30 years. You chances of it working out are about the same as winning the lottery. The chances of all kinds of things going seriously wrong are near certain. That is why they call this a hobby and not real life. Enjoy the fantasy because trying to make it real life will seriously mess you up.
ICU 812's Avatar
Let me get this right: You want to have extended time with her FOR FREE?

think how many ways this could go wrong!
Lovelyxxxo's Avatar
This is a bad idea... Someone will have their ego hurt in the end.
BsandHobby's Avatar
Been there. Done that. Epic mistake. I've been in and out of the hobby for nearly 30 years. You chances of it working out are about the same as winning the lottery. The chances of all kinds of things going seriously wrong are near certain. That is why they call this a hobby and not real life. Enjoy the fantasy because trying to make it real life will seriously mess you up. Originally Posted by Houston.Epicurean
Exactly!

Keep paying. This probably isn't the first time she has been through this. She is almost certainly jaded and you will be. Even if you "sponsor" her to take her off the market, you are really still a client.