Does she need lube because shes not enthused?

shorty's Avatar
Well spoken London, on how the ladies body naturally lubes. However, I can see ladies that do have to use lube because she gets dried out from the use of condoms. Guess that's one of the things a lady has to put up with because any lady or guy in their right mind isn't going to BBFS a client or provider.
I use lube not because I do not want the condom to break and the added Lube acts as a second barrier to potential DNA exchange. I have never had any complaints. Just an "AHH that's wet".....
Yes, I am small....and lube does not make it any bigger. It just makes things slippery and hurts like hell when he goes too far in!

Jackie, our bodies were meant to have BBFS period. You start adding condoms, a different type each week no less, plus lubes....and it is prevents natural things from happening as they should. They are a necessary evil in this biz, but that's not the way it was meant to be for our bodies to self lubricate Originally Posted by London Rayne
Well I agree with you. Condoms really throw off the natural course of things for both men and women. It's apparent it's that way with you. I will also retract my previous post to you, although I was merely joking, I realize this is a sensitive subject with you and not much you are able to do about it in most cases.
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Oh love, I don't take anything that serious lol. I am always joking about it anyway. Hey, small guys need to feel like a porn star too and with me...they can!

4. I predict to some extent, she may be so jaded, or unenthused sexually that she needs natures help to moisten herself. (Good daty usually I thought would do the trick very well.)

Originally Posted by gimme_that
Just because a woman needs lube, doesn't mean she's jaded, it simply makes her fucking normal like all the other women who use lube out there! And being that all of our bodies respond differently to things, it is going to be pretty tough for you to try and analyze why she may be using lube, as not everyone uses it for the same reasons...

And no, just because a bloke may know how to give good head doesn't mean the floodgates are going to open. Our bodies do not get all hot and bothered by everyone we see, and if there are any blokes out there who dumb enough to assume differently, then they are delusional.

If a bloke gets offended by a hooker using lube then perhaps he should find a new hobby.
Interresting, I always thought lube was a good thing...
burkalini's Avatar
Oh love, I don't take anything that serious lol. I am always joking about it anyway. Hey, small guys need to feel like a porn star too and with me...they can! Originally Posted by London Rayne

No disrespect to them but London have you thought about catering to the asian community
London Rayne's Avatar
I already do, and that's not nice Burk! That's about as naive as assuming all black men are hung...hmmm, well maybe they are lol.
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  • 08-22-2011, 09:20 PM
Interresting, I always thought lube was a good thing... Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
I'm with ya, Rabbitman....

Considering all the fucking that goes on within this little community... I am confused and amazed by some of what I've read in this thread!* I'm still trying to figure out why any guy would be so sensitive to be offended! by the suggestion of a little lube!! !Where does that come from?
shorty's Avatar
The only lube I don't like, is when a lady uses the lube during a HJ and doesn't wipe it off before the condom goes on. It makes the condom want to slip and I'm so aware of it that. I tend to not have a good time because I'm afraid its going to slip off.
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Really depends on the activities and how vigorous it is, I don't like to be rubbed raw just as I'm certain she doesn't want to be. Stripper slides (her on top) and hands during bj need lube or I will be raw afterwards.

Some lube will make me unable to to ring a second bell (wet sucks).

But this lube is awesome, someone recommended on here it doesn't get the cold feel that some lubes do and it lasts a good while and taste good I tried some of their other flavors and didn't care for it though
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But this lube is awesome, someone recommended on here it doesn't get the cold feel that some lubes do and it lasts a good while and taste good I tried some of their other flavors and didn't care for it though Originally Posted by Combustion
I recommended it in several places on this site. It's great!

I don't care for most of the flavored lubes and also, some of the flavored stuff is just too light and doesn't work well. This tastes VERY good and it was works well as a general lube that has multi-uses (I don't believe that is a word!).

By the way, I did buy some of the cherry flavor in the same brand just to give it a try and it was on sale on Amazon. It's alright but the tangerine dream is STILL the best, in my opinion.

This is turning out to be an interesting topic!

Elisabeth
awl4knot's Avatar
This tastes VERY good and it was works well as a general lube that has multi-uses (I don't believe that is a word!).

This is turning out to be an interesting topic!

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
Elisabeth,

Go old school and try "multiple uses". Only a few characters more to type but there will be no grammatical, syntactical or etymological issues to confront.

Concerning lube, I can only think of three encounters, no make that four, where I remember lube "being in the mix" but I am sure it was used subtly on other occasions. My personal experience is that the use of lube is unrelated to the excitement level of the lady and is only a matter of personal preference or need. We shouldn't over think these things.

Awl4knot
burkalini's Avatar
Lube, natural wetness, spit if necessary. If it's slippery and smooth and clean then I say fuck it.
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Elisabeth,
Go old school and try "multiple uses". Only a few characters more to type but there will be no grammatical, syntactical or etymological issues to confront.Awl4knot Originally Posted by awl4knot
What the hell did you just call her?

Lube GOOD! Hot Sause BAD!