hi and thanks to everyone who posted positively on this thread im shocked in a good way at the responses. as for outing anyone i dont see a reason to do that..ill admit i was really mad when i posted this thread and was expecting to get flamed myself but flaming outing or alerting for canceling only once seems a little harsh right? i can see if they ncns'd me but they all canceled it was just after i got here which was an inconvenience but not alert or out worthy. those guys know who they are.
someone mentioned that touring is a gamble and that is very true. you win some you loose some.
I had a better day today than i did yesterday. My steelers won, i got some appts, and went to a cool little bar and met some nice houston people. a lot of nice guys reached out to me and being the stubborn leo that i am i will probably come back here again sometime soon so i can meet you all.
thanks again to everyone