Providers that use their incalls as work and home. How do you customers feel about that?

yes tara everytime some makes a list of which provider is best at this or is most pretty you always are on like 9 out of 10 lists.

and to jules, you know i hate to admit it but you are right i know i post too much and talk too much on here but truth is this is my only outlet to talk about the hobby. i dont have any civie friends really or provider friends, in the area atleast MonetLuv is my bestie but she is so far away. I dont wanna make a face book... i need more of a life i really do, i am gonna try this year though to not post so much and find something else to do lol. . . and other people to talk to cause i notice most providers dont post alot, especially the phenomenoms... eccie is my social media, and i must admit i am a little addicted hehe Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I got ya I'm going to pm you my response

I would not recommend the provider do that UNLESS she seeing a relatively few number of guys and she can trust them all.. personally my old ATF used her home and it was great.. she was comfortable as was I..

yes tara everytime some makes a list of which provider is best at this or is most pretty you always are on like 9 out of 10 lists.

and to jules, you know i hate to admit it but you are right i know i post too much and talk too much on here but truth is this is my only outlet to talk about the hobby. i dont have any civie friends really or provider friends, in the area atleast MonetLuv is my bestie but she is so far away. I dont wanna make a face book... i need more of a life i really do, i am gonna try this year though to not post so much and find something else to do lol. . . and other people to talk to cause i notice most providers dont post alot, especially the phenomenoms... eccie is my social media, and i must admit i am a little addicted hehe Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Well thank you for the kind words. Yes I do get mentioned a lot but I have been around a long time as well. If you would like too hang out anytime or talk that would be nice.

What i am confused, where did i offend you at in my post? I thought we were cool katrina what happened?

I hope you did not take the beginning sentences seriously i was kidding when i said i wanted a stalker sounds like they are good money, i was kidding. When i say lol, i mean Lol Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Although I have been offended in the past by some of your comments, this was not the case this time. It just boggles my mind of your thought process a lot of the time. I will be 40 this month. Did my first provider session at the age of 35. Had already had been to college, had 2 kids and married and divorced twice. I haven't done this for years and years, but with age and experience brings wisdom. I will lay off. I don't like bickering between providers and sorry if I put you on blast , but you frequently set yourself up for it and at times I cannot resist. Its the bold Taurus in me and possibly the mother in me since I have children near your age. They are boys thank god!!!! I ain't mad at cha!

It seems these types of questions always swirl almost immediately tot he botom of the bowl. Psychos, stalkers, burglars, being outted...hell there are nutcases everywhere, in every walk of life, and they are unavoidable, it wouldn't matter is you kept rescue animals, a recording studio or a birdhouse woodshop in your house, somebody is going to come in, check out your shit sooner or later, from the shifty eyed air conditioning person to the cable TV guy (and we know NONE of those people are ex cons). Most people work or do something that takes them out of the house during during the day. I have three large dogs. You gotta want something I have really bad to deal with that. And most ofthose crimes are of the ease an opportunity type.

Nutcase providers (outcall to the hobbyist's home) and nutcase hobbyists (incall to the provider's home)...what can you really do to protect yourself but rent a sterile room somewhere or stop?

Back to the OP's original question, it doesn't matter, really. What matters is cousin Jimbo passed out on the couch with his GF or any other obvious Hotel California sort of setting, Cheerios or other sticky crunchy bits on the floor and 3 days worth of dishes in the sink. No matter how we all may choose to live is one thing, but in this game we're buying time for escape, not more sameness and similarity. A provider's incall, home or otherwise, should be more like an Oasis and less like three days into and Extended Stay America.

I have been to I calls that were the providers home. I don't have any issue with it at all. It beats a hotel. As long as the place is clean no issues with me.

Tara personally I do think it is risky for a lady to provide from their home but it won't stop me from seeing a her. It is her business. I am less concerned with clutter vs being squeaky clean

Pardon all the illiterate typos in my earlier post...jeez

yes tara everytime some makes a list of which provider is best at this or is most pretty you always are on like 9 out of 10 lists.

and to jules, you know i hate to admit it but you are right i know i post too much and talk too much on here but truth is this is my only outlet to talk about the hobby. i dont have any civie friends really or provider friends, in the area atleast MonetLuv is my bestie but she is so far away. I dont wanna make a face book... i need more of a life i really do, i am gonna try this year though to not post so much and find something else to do lol. . . and other people to talk to cause i notice most providers dont post alot, especially the phenomenoms... eccie is my social media, and i must admit i am a little addicted hehe Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Mya...it makes me sad and a little concerned reading your post that you don't have many civie friends and your life is mostly a provider life. You are so young and I hope you will focus on the more important things...your friends, family, your goals, activities, hobbies, passion outside of here. Because THOSE are the real things! This should be a small part of your life to help you reach your goals to achieve a better current lifestyle and your future. It's very important to have balance in your life. I know it's hard to get close to people since we have to be discreet and hide what we do....but I try to make it a habit to stay active in my real social life and activities outside of this and I have created a nice balance for myself. :-) Best of luck, girl!

+1

I couldn't care less if she uses her residence for her incall as long as it is nice and clean. Now, I do think she's crazy to do so because of the risk from psycho guys out there. But, that's her problem, not mine, and it's not my place to tell her how to handle her business. Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

What he said...






@ BBW Katrina, I've liked a couple of your posts in this thread...ijs

I actually like going to a provider's home rather than a hotel as it is more cozy most of the time. If they rent an apartment just for business and furnish it like their home, that is cozy also. Some providers will only invite clients to their actual homes with whom they have an ongoing relationship.

@ BBW Katrina, I've liked a couple of your posts in this thread...ijs Originally Posted by DickEmDown

lol she didnt say anything except that she is old enough to be my mother and that she was half way offended because she has kids my age and just was mad because she couldnt imagine how upset she would be if i were her daughter.

I havent said anything to offend anyone in this thread, except i guess defending the choice to use your residence as well your work place(dont worry im on the second floor). Oh and i think i have offended some people by Preaching independence all over the place lol (but it will always be the few against the many). But dont worry folks i am gonna stay off these BBS boards, and get me a real life like Samantha said! I'm a fresh 24 yr ol i should totally like be outside or something. I can't wait either

And with that I'm Off!

To the OP - I prefer and like it.

lol she didnt say anything except that she is old enough to be my mother and that she was half way offended because she has kids my age and just was mad because she couldnt imagine how upset she would be if i were her daughter.

I havent said anything to offend anyone in this thread, except i guess defending the choice to use your residence as well your work place(dont worry im on the second floor). Oh and i think i have offended some people by Preaching independence all over the place lol (but it will always be the few against the many). But dont worry folks i am gonna stay off these BBS boards, and get me a real life like Samantha said! I'm a fresh 24 yr ol i should totally like be outside or something. I can't wait either

And with that I'm Off! Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

WHAT??? Thats what you got out of my post?Ummm okkkkk. What a bright little light you are. Not. Yeah, get a life, buy a vowel and solve the puzzle little girl. No wonder you don't have friends.