Eliazabeth W., the idea of someone being intimidated by you just makes me shake my head.
You are uber smart, kind, caring, creative and adventurous. You are fantastic as a GFE. If someone wants to venture into the kink realm, they couldn't find a better guide--a partner with whom they could be more comfortable that what they do will be done skilfully and with absolute respect for boundaries, and outstanding ability to read her partner.
Originally Posted by spice-is-nice
You're wonderful and thank you!
But men scare easily. I know that many of you are probably shaking your head with a small laugh and a "I can't believe that she wrote that! She's crazy!!!".
Other women will validate this: Many men are just plain scared of women. And women who are strong in their sexuality and very open about activities, etc., just scare the living crap/daylight out of guys.
Not all the time, though!!!
But I've had men just flat out tell me that they won't see me because they don't want me to do anything crazy. This type of thought process always surprises me.
I don't do a bucket list of activities with everyone in the same fashion. We're all different in our needs and wants. And each man, kink focused or not, have their own desires and needs. And that is what we're here to supply.
Oh well. Nature of the beast, I guess.