Provider's feelings on younger hobbyist

I LOVE young hobbyists. (That's not to say I don't love the older gents as well.)

At 31, I'm not quite old enough to be a cougar... but I'm working on it. That being said, I haven't been with someone that young since I was a teenager. It might be an odd experience, but I think I could handle it.

A lot of women don't like young guys because the high testosterone can make them kind of rough. This is generally true in my experience. Older guys tend to be a bit more gentle and younger guys like hitting it fast and furious from all angles. Also, there is a higher likelihood of multi-bells and I guess some women aren't a fan of MSOG.

I suspect something else is at work too. Young guys were raised on Internet porn of a rougher variety than what was easily available to the older generations of men who had to sneak dirty magazines in their youth. In porn the women always love having a cock shoved down their throat so they can't breathe, or a 12 inch cock rammed as hard and fast as possible into their 6 inch cunt, having their hair yanked on hard enough to give them whiplash, having their ass slapped hard, or having cum all over their face and hair.

It should never be assumed that a provider enjoys that sort of action. In my experience, young guys are more likely to engage in rough play without asking first. So don't make that mistake.

If women have an age limit, don't argue with them. Just move on. There are plenty of others who will welcome you with open arms.

Have fun! Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

What?! Look, if porn has taught me anything, it's that no matter where I am, if I whip out my cock in front of a woman, I'm in for a good time. Seriously, no place or time is inappropriate. When that one hot chick at the DMV asks for your signature? Whip it out! When the girl at subway asks, "Six inch or foot long?" Whip it out! When your girlfriend's mom won't shut the hell up about how you should respect women more? Whip it out!

P.S. Also, all women appreciate being called a dirty whore. All of them. If she stops mid action and stares at you like you're retarded, that's the You-Turned-Me-On-So-Much-I-Don't-Know-What-To-Do look. Assert control and break the spell by repeating yourself--she'll become ravenous with desire. You'll thank me. And porn. Because porn doesn't lie.

I suspect something else is at work too. Young guys were raised on Internet porn of a rougher variety than what was easily available to the older generations of men who had to sneak dirty magazines in their youth. In porn the women always love having a cock shoved down their throat so they can't breathe, or a 12 inch cock rammed as hard and fast as possible into their 6 inch cunt, having their hair yanked on hard enough to give them whiplash, having their ass slapped hard, or having cum all over their face and hair.

It should never be assumed that a provider enjoys that sort of action. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

Careful, dear. Talk like that can get you on the bad side of *some* gents. H

I enjoy spending time with gentlemen of all ages. A respectful manner and postive attitude mean much more then a number, on either end of the age spectrum.

xoox Sophie

I prefer my men seasoned with that ole school touch.

I had young clients who were ole school, but they had an older SO. And i thoroughly enjoyed myself.

Younger men can be pushy, and yes i think they watch too much porn. I can hang with the big dogs like the best of them but damn.

Older gents take their time, make the woman feel good, because they know whats coming next. I think some younger gents think that shit is unmanly or gay.

Anyway

Just be respectful, treat her right, wash your balls, don't be pushy unless she likes it......hehehe and you should be good. Good luck and have fun.

Twenty years old is just too young for me. It doesn’t have anything to do with your experience or, what some have said, you don’t have enough money to – I have no idea what they were implying– especially if you are willing to pay my fee. It has to do with I’m just too old for you. I have seen some men in their late 20’s but only because I had no idea how old they were because they presented themselves well, which I ‘m sure you do, and passed screening. Everyone had a good time, I think because they knew my age and knew what they wanted from the get go.

Also, don’t listen to whoever posted earlier it’s all about you. If that’s what you want, then fine. But I’ve found most want to have more than an orgasm. If that’s all they want, well then there are more perfect bodies in Playboy, Playboy is less than $10, and I believe that’s what a hand is for.

Hoenstly, this shit can get you very jaded. You will become very shallow and will lose patience for women the longer you do this and every time you get in a relationship , you think of many crazy stuff you have done with providers before so either your expectation gets raised or your concentration goes to shit.

May be you can shake the cobwebs and get some confidence for your private life but be careful how long or how deep you get in this game for. Originally Posted by Htowner

This is true....read this over and over. Your perception of women will change once you partake. My advise. Get a girlfriend and try to have a normal relationship for as long as you can. Cause this shit is gonna change you and mess up your head. This I promise.

Your perception of women will change once you partake. My advise. Get a girlfriend and try to have a normal relationship for as long as you can. Cause this shit is gonna change you and mess up your head. This I promise. Originally Posted by Mr Clever

Very sage statement from a senior member of the community, guys.

This ought to be a "sticky" at the top of page one on this site. Or, maybe a disclaimer that you have to click "yes" I want to view this site.

I concur...Mr. Clever is a "senior" member.

I like young guys, and older guys. as long as your willing to share info its good to go. Im 21 myself so I like all different ages!

MUncle - think carefully before you get in. Many of the older hobbyists and even some of the providers have eluded to what you are undertaking. The experience is a contract between two consenting adults whereby the provider has agreed to fulfill your fantasy for a price. The provider's job is to follow your spoken or unspoken lead and manage your ego and fantasy. Providers like older men because they know what that fantasy is and both parties play their part. It gets in your head because it isn't real and at your age if you begin to think you are what she says you are, (and they are extremely persuasive) you will struggle with a real relationship. In the real relationship, your girlfriend will never live up to your expectation because she wont make you feel like a provider makes you feel or play the part you are expecting.

You should learn how to love and be loved before you pay for the fantasy.

I personally just had a talk with a few friends of mine (providers) and as young women we have mixed feelings about this subject. I personally feel that its nice to have someone my age i can relate to a lil bit better not to mention the young men "hotties" make it fun for us. At the same time it makes me wonder why? whats the m.o b/c if your young hott and comfortable in ur wallet why hobby when you could get a girl anywhere with less hassle.
But however i can say that i have honestly NEVER had a bad time with a younger hobbyist. And i have seen plenty.
TO EACH HIS OWN.... YOUNG MEN NEED LOVIN TOO!! Originally Posted by Addison09

Wow this thread has exploded. Just got back in town and some solid advice in this thread I agree it should be stickied or maybe after discussion it should be summed up in a post. Addison as far as my reasoning its very simple, curiosity and thrills. Yes, I could go out club, restaurant, party, whatever and get a girl with much less trouble and hassle, but it gets very old. Plus its very hard to not find a girl who expects me to go drop $500 or more on shopping or whatever she wants after she sleeps with me and finds out what I do and how much I make. But overall again, just curiosity, I can't help myself . And in a few weeks (hopefully) when I get free time I will fulfill my curiosity.

MUncle - think carefully before you get in. Many of the older hobbyists and even some of the providers have eluded to what you are undertaking. The experience is a contract between two consenting adults whereby the provider has agreed to fulfill your fantasy for a price. The provider's job is to follow your spoken or unspoken lead and manage your ego and fantasy. Providers like older men because they know what that fantasy is and both parties play their part. It gets in your head because it isn't real and at your age if you begin to think you are what she says you are, (and they are extremely persuasive) you will struggle with a real relationship. In the real relationship, your girlfriend will never live up to your expectation because she wont make you feel like a provider makes you feel or play the part you are expecting.

You should learn how to love and be loved before you pay for the fantasy. Originally Posted by Baseplate

I understand what you are saying and have thought about what you are saying. I understand that people have flaws and women you get into a relationship with always have flaws, as do I. Hobbying for me will be a non issue as far as confusing fantasy and reality. I do see how it can be hard though if you hobby too often, or ingore SO, or something to that nature.

this has been a great read.