My question for you, Zyzz is why would you even ask this? I suspect you have low self esteem issues and you are looking for a way to bolster your ego.
Originally Posted by cinderbella
First off, I think you overseeing the question. It was a simple question and it has already been answered in this thread.
It's no different than the idiot who goes to the grocery store and insults a cashier because the item you want is out of stock.
This is where you're wrong. That is abuse. The point of this hobby is to satisfy fantasies.
You probably sit behind the wheel when you drive and yell at all the other drivers because you have road rage.
Funny how this went from a simple question to you insulting me. Does this topic hit too close to home?
When I worked real world jobs, I had bosses who were extremely degrading and didn't get paid a whole lot to endure it. I just quit, walked out and decided to be my own boss. I can choose to see who inquires to see me and they can be assured I am not going to degrade them in any way nor will I accept that from anyone. I choose to create my own path of enlightenment and encouragement. I have a much better quality of life as a result, make far more money than before and have more love and friendship in my life than I ever knew previously.
Do you insult them based off a question they posted on a online forum?
Just because a woman advertises on here and accepts money for services doesn't mean she wants to be abused or mistreated. People who seek to prey upon who they perceive as weaker are merely abused people themselves seeking revenge. If you really want to be a big, strong man who others respect and admire then do something respectful and admirable for someone weaker or in need. Donate your time to a charity. Volunteer for meals on wheels. Mentor a kid thru a big brother program. You will learn something about yourself and others that you obviously don't know now.
This is where you're partially right. Yes, I am sure providers don't sign up to be abused. But, who said I would or anyone would abuse them? This is about a fantasy which some providers would be willing to do. This has nothing to do with abusing anyone. Also, what I do in my personal life is none of your business. You are speaking to me as if you know my life story based of a question.
The lesson is that you are directly responsible for your situation. You accepted your job, spouse, whatever and now you and only you are in control of your life. Stop blaming others and take a more practical view of yourself. And, no calling me degrading names is not acceptable.
Lol I am simply baffled at this point. Who am I blaming? Glad to know I can cross you off my list as if you were ever on it. This is a YMMV topic in which you got incredibly offended by and in result insulted me before even understanding the topic.
How would you like it if you paid for a session and she insulted you, called you degrading names and disrespected you? From the male posters on this board that have had that happen to them then I gather it isn't something enjoyable or what they paid for in the first place.
For some male posters they might be into that as would providers. If I was feeling kinky that day maybe I would ask for that. What part of a fantasy do you not understand?
This topic was nothing about abusing or mistreating providers. You got a little carried away. I appreciate your insults. (sarcasm)