That's just it. It's not about being OK with it.....it's about being happy with it.....for a lasting relationship.
Originally Posted by Sarunga
There are plenty of relationships that work without both people being happy about what the other does. Sometimes one party in the relationship has a job that makes them work more hours than the other likes. Sometimes one party works for a company that the other doesn't care for.
Each relationship is different. Some guys can't handle their SO being a provider. That's fair. However, I would posit that there are some guys who accept that and are fine with that and the relationship is ok without them being all hooray happy about it.
This is a little twist in my first post. This is a completely different scenario. Your talking about an open life style .Provider already has a SO.
I was asking if it is possible to successfully have companionship (not paid) as a Provider. Yes Fast gunn had a good response about labeling myself as.
I was looking for someone to share quality time with..That wouldn't get upset if he found out I was/were a Provider. I am not looking to be a Sugar Momma nor am I looking for a Sugar daddy. I am looking for an open minded older gentleman that can accept me for who I am and what I do. I am not looking for no serious relationship. So I would not depend on this person other than spending time together and laughing. So what i do shouldn't concern him too much . As I can pay my own bills. I have gotten a lot of response to just hook up with a hobbyist. I do not think that would be wise either. I am not looking to be played or play any games. I just hope there is an ordinary man out there that is established like myself has goals and no baby momma drama crazy ex etc. I would like to share with him the truth about everything. I know starting any relation ship friend or romantic is #1 honesty. I read another response " Ask me no questions" I tell you no lies" eventually everything comes out and he might get his feeling hurt. I am really enjoying reading the responses in this thread.
Originally Posted by SensualSpecialist
I generally feel that honesty is the best policy in a relationship so if you're going to try to start something that may evolve into something more serious (even a strong friendship), I think it'd probably be best to be honest up front especially with something like this that would likely be a dealbreaker for a lot of men.
Again, to each their own though so if you decide that it's better to lie about it up front or not mention it until later, that's fine too. The above is just my opinion on the matter.