I'v had a few other's give deposit's for out of town visit's
if I have to flake out I would give the deposit back right away
as I'm organize provider and giving a deposit back wold not
be a issue for me at all .
You Do Have To Have Trust With Each Other !
Right there is why pre-pays and deposits are risky (not saying Gina would). Little to no incentive.
Real encounters that soured my view on deposits/prepays.
Popular lady was always asking me to prepay. My white knight ass (which has since tarnished) would prepay for multi-hour appts. It got harder and harder to get her to make good because she was busy taking care of "paying customers". When it took her over a month to make good and she shows up at my place, flat-ass broke, refusing to leave unless I bought her some gas is when I decided to stop seeing her.
Another superprovider got sick shortly after starting a overnight date. Instead of a refund we agreed the funds would just apply to a future overnighter. Like pulling teeth to get her to show up. When we finally settled on a day and time she kept bumping me claiming she was getting her nails done. She had no idea I was answering email inquiries from the "paying customers" she was bumping me for.
Aaaaand the lady that needed money so she and her family could have a nice 4th of July weekend. She spent all the money and didn't have any to get a room to make good as we agreed so she just went silent on me.
Guys, learn from my dumass mistakes. If a provider has your money already you ARE a lower priority. Originally Posted by Hercules
Originally Posted by JackTripperATX