Your Thoughts on a Hobbyist/Provider Dating?

Back in? Really? Grrr......

You're killin' me DH.

Seei f you can break this code,???

See I was right. You can't help who you lub.............. Originally Posted by onehitwonder

TFF
DH is cockblocking himself!!!!

Fuc*ing Prophet? Maybe... Playa? Not so much...........


Boardman, I just noticed you never opened the one with my password.
You're movin' up, fast!

Fuc*ing Prophet? Maybe... Playa? Not so much...........


Boardman, I just noticed you never opened the one with my password.
You're movin' up, fast! Originally Posted by onehitwonder

I thought I was already there! Damn, what's a guy gotta do around here to get some strange. Oh, wait, never mind.

[quote=boardman;501573]I thought I was already there! After the PM fiasco? Damn, what's a guy gotta do around here to get some strange. might I suggest, losin the "other" cat? Oh, wait, never mind. Now you're catchin' on...[/quote]

yes we can. this is my 1st post. i was reading thru the responses because i date ONLY hobbyists in my personal life. why not? one of the pers of this job is the fact we have so many men to choose from when it comes to: dating, purely sexual relationships, friendship, ect... c'mon, i kno im not the ONLY provider that goes 4 hobbyists??? if ANY1s mind is open enough to date a female that isnt ready to stop working {for sumthing as frivilous as an emotion or a tingle in thier panties} it HAS to be a hobyist, right?

Back in? Really? Grrr......

You're killin' me DH.

Seei f you can break this code,???

See I was right. You can't help who you lub..............

Oh and btw DH, hows that broken tooth? (I cracked myself up with that one!) Originally Posted by onehitwonder

She loves me.............oh happy days are here again.

She loves me.............oh happy days are here again. Originally Posted by dearhunter

You have no idea.............

I am an 'electrical' guy cannot wear a ring too dangerous, although I am married. I had more than one massage lady inspect my ring finger very carefully. But i tell them the truth ,otherwise there would even be more drama!

Thanks everyone for your responses..Srry I havent been around to reply, I value all of your opinions!

I dont plan on engaging in such a relationship but since I am faced with this issue thought Id get some opinions from my friends and family. IMO were all swingers in the hobby, in one shape, form or fashion!

I know this is a common issue in the hobby provided we do have the chance to get rather close to each one another due to the circumstances of our tryst. There is a fine line between lust & love, and quite frankly I too believe that such lines shouldnt be crossed. Its easier if we stick to what we came here for - but the true woman side of me says love cannot be defined to time, location or how it was discovered. This hobby is meant to be fun, drama free and easy.. I am really considering letting go of this " 'L' struck friend", hes married and it totally puts me in a place of discomfort because Im not a home wrecker nor perfer to be one. Family always come first, ALWAYS! Again thanks everyone!

Dear Hunter & OHW you guys should go for it & get it over with, lol!!

Girl he's scared! He needs to man-up,huh?

..Srry I havent been around to reply ... Originally Posted by Jaleh

Who are you and why are you posting in DearHunter's "How to Alienate a Provider in 10 Days" thread...

Been there done that and still have the scars !! I dated a couple of well known women.. would not repeat!! but friendship is fine, just don't get caught up in the drama! hookers and johns are like democrats and republicans ... they get along fine when they are alone, but its all about the money in the end...

OHW maybe you imtimated him, lol...

ThatManFromTexas I am your worst nightmare or can be the best thing thats ever happened to you.. Your choice.. lol

]ThatManFromTexas I am your worst nightmare or can be the best thing thats ever happened to you.. Your choice.. lol Originally Posted by Jaleh

Damn girl, you would kill him. Talk about making someone TAP.

Maybe if you had 15 min sessions he could see you - that way you would only have to talk with him for 10 min after he was done!

LMAO CivilBarrister... I wouldnt harm a fly! But are you trying to challenge me.. Its the truth no one has made me TAP!

ThatManFromTexas he is underestimating your abilites!