There are clearly two points of view, both valid. There's also a very simple "best of both worlds" solution which ladies have used with me.
I mean really? You wanna spend an hour with a cunty bitch?
Oftentimes, no.
Sometimes a suboptimal performance beats none at all, especially for those of us who do not have that much time to hobby because of work commitments. An hour isn't much time to rustle up a plan B.
Originally Posted by TexTushHog
Often this is quite true. Some of us live an hour or more from a big city, so an hour before the appointment we've already made whatever arrangements and driven quite a distance. I used to drive 90 minutes from College Station to Houston I'd leave two hours or more before the appointment time.
How to know which is true for a given guy on a given day? ASK! Ask him, not us. You tell him "Hey I'm having a really crappy day and I don't think I can give you a great session today. If you want to reschedule ... or, we can get together and see what happens".
He might say "tomorrow or Tuesday would be cool", he might say "dang, I only travel to Dallas four times per year and I was really looking forward to seeing you." If he's really smart, he might even say "where is your favorite place to go in Dallas? Cosmo's you say? Let's head down there and have a couple of drinks and see what happens."