Very Nice Thread Ms Reese & you just made a few hobbyists smile today. I wish more Providers would express their thoughts and feelings about their encounters and give Gentleman hobbyists, and Hobbyists that give their ALL in a session, 2-thumbs up once in a while. IMHO, there are many ways of giving it your ALL, from DATY, Cock-rings to make it last, the blue-pill, etc., to make sure she truly enjoys & remembers the session.
Most guys that I know or associate with are STAGE setters. Bring a gift, a card, maybe a flower, a drink, or some snacks, anything to make her smile. Then try to excel in bed is also our goal. We learn this from teenagers on up to our golden years. (Now I also know that there are guys that DON’T know how to treat a lady, and could care less if she gets off or not. This post is not about those guys)
Confidence grows with each compliment a lady gives us; these are the fruits of our efforts.
Not ALL of us have six-pack abs, are 20-something, can hang for hours, or have 9-inchers but, we are still sexy in other ways, as many have mentioned in above posts. We can still give it our ALL, be a Gentleman, and from the experience of life and knowledge of what ladies like, still turn her head and make her smile.
Thank you Ms Reese for recognizing a few hobbyists out there,
CG