She got banned because she stole money? I do not see in the guidelines where ripping off members gets you banned. According to what I as told by an admin via email, anything that is done outside the confines of Eccie (outing, robbing, ect.), and is not admitted to on Eccie, means nothing when it comes to membership status.You don't know what happens behind the scenes or will you hear about it, whoever's banned is this thread surely screwed up big
But, lots of times, rules are made up to suit depending on who it is that is doing it or doing it to that determines mod action/inaction on here. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
She got banned because she stole money? I do not see in the guidelines where ripping off members gets you banned. According to what I as told by an admin via email, anything that is done outside the confines of Eccie (outing, robbing, ect.), and is not admitted to on Eccie, means nothing when it comes to membership status.
So she must have done something additional against site rules to get the boot, right? Then again, lots of times, rules are made up to suit depending on who it is that is doing it or doing it to that determines mod action/inaction on here. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
With that being said, this is why I put in a request today to have my account deleted because it's not fair!! We don't know what occurs between a provider and a hobbyist when something goes sour all we know is what's being told there's never any proof and guys base their decision on whether or not to see this lady on what other gentlemen are saying. I think it's very unfair and it's happened to me on several occasions and I'm just tired!! I really thought this was a good board but it's changed so much and I just don't think it's fair for us providers or the hobbyist when lies are being told and it's acceptable??? Originally Posted by JennaVee
Unfortunately, even tho it is a total fabrication, perception of baseless allegations are the greater part of reality on Eccie. There are trolls and BSC providers who never have met the person the slander, let alone had a session with them, and they accuse others of this or that, then, because Eccie allows this bullshit, others who are weak minded and get told what to think, carry the water for the trolls.
This board is suppose to be a review board and providing intel about P4P, but even since it's enception, the agendas of the most frequent posters are basically all that one reads about on Eccie. The staff has FINALLY decided to enforce the guidelines evenly to all it's members, that BTW, were put in place on day one (after 10 years of nothing but negativity and drama). Because most of the Eccie staff members are easily minipulated to be bias and join in on and adding to the drama, it is going to be a LONG SLOW process of getting this site on track to it's intended purpose. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
She got banned because she stole money? I do not see in the guidelines where ripping off members gets you banned. According to what I as told by an admin via email, anything that is done outside the confines of Eccie (outing, robbing, ect.), and is not admitted to on Eccie, means nothing when it comes to membership status.Man, you all have invested way too much into this board. I just don't understand your expectations. Should every hobbyist and provider be assigned a chaperone to follow them around, sit in the corner of the room, and monitor all activities for verification? Unless that happens (which it won't) there is always going to be an element of "good faith" involved here. This is not a board for tips on knitting and sewing or how to eat healthy. It's for people engaging in a high risk, unregulated, illegal lifestyle among consenting adults. This board can't protect you whether guy or girl. No board can. Since majority of this is based off of taking people's word, combined with the male/female dichotomy and a lifestyle known to attract seedy characters, there will always be drama, lies, and mishaps. ALWAYS! That also makes the task of moderating things here extremely difficult. The best you can do is gather as much info as you can from here and wherever else, then make a judgement call, and proceed w/ caution knowing that there is still going to be a lot of risk involved on BOTH sides despite what may have been said or unsaid here. Anything beyond that is unrealistic.
So she must have done something additional against site rules to get the boot, right? Then again, lots of times, rules are made up to suit depending on who it is that is doing it or doing it to that determines mod action/inaction on here. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
She got banned because she stole money? I do not see in the guidelines where ripping off members gets you banned. According to what I as told by an admin via email, anything that is done outside the confines of Eccie (outing, robbing, ect.), and is not admitted to on Eccie, means nothing when it comes to membership status.Do you ever stop complaining about shit? Seriously dude, why the fuck do you even want to be on this site?
So she must have done something additional against site rules to get the boot, right? Then again, lots of times, rules are made up to suit depending on who it is that is doing it or doing it to that determines mod action/inaction on here. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
Man, you all have invested way too much into this board. I just don't understand your expectations. Should every hobbyist and provider be assigned a chaperone to follow them around, sit in the corner of the room, and monitor all activities for verification? Unless that happens (which it won't) there is always going to be an element of "good faith" involved here. This is not a board for tips on knitting and sewing or how to eat healthy. It's for people engaging in a high risk, unregulated, illegal lifestyle among consenting adults. This board can't protect you whether guy or girl. No board can. Since majority of this is based off of taking people's word, combined with the male/female dichotomy and a lifestyle known to attract seedy characters, there will always be drama, lies, and mishaps. ALWAYS! That also makes the task of moderating things here extremely difficult. The best you can do is gather as much info as you can from here and wherever else, then make a judgement call, and proceed w/ caution knowing that there is still going to be a lot of risk involved on BOTH sides despite what may have been said or unsaid here. Anything beyond that is unrealistic. Originally Posted by TheOracleExcellent advice & commentary on ECCIE and the hobby in general.
Lexie is a survivor. She's sweet, warm, accommodating, fun, and a great girl. Have seen her many times, incall and outcall. Be careful... She's the kind of girl you could fall in love with! Originally Posted by MayoThank you for bumping this old thread and reminding the community what she did. You're a great friend to her!