Personally, I don't ask for description, age or for a picture to do my screening. Although, I do understand why she might ask for the description and age. But her wanting a picture blows my mind.
On a side note, I have had newbie gents offer pics of themselves to try and get around screening. I guess they think that if I find them attractive or if they have a nice smile, I'll just say "OK, come on over" smh
Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
Looks are deceiving... If its one thing I have learned over the years in life its that a big heart matter most. I have sent a face pic to a provider before as well as shared personal information, but that was after we had gotten to know one another and trust as some conversations that take place can be dangerous and trust is a major key.
With all of the alerts in this business, you have to be able to trust someone and that's why screening is a must because lets be honest...the provider takes the biggest risk. Not to mention its annoying to a provider to be stood up. Sometimes life happens and someone has to cancel on an appointment, but when someone gets a reputation for not showing up to appointments its good for a provider to know before hand so they don't have their time wasted. For me, there is someone I would love to see but the embarrassment of real life causing two missed appointments is well embarrassing. Sometimes shit happens but honesty is key.
Reviews on ladies should also be taken with a grain of salt...some ladies have their YMMV as I have read and others demand you to be clean which is common sense to me. Its also good to remember that providers can change just like us as they learn and adapt to the business. Just because a bad habit was once there, doesn't mean it still is... and just because a provider was into something before doesn't mean she still is or that her menu has not expanded.... in the end... its all about who you present yourself as and if you treat a provider with respect. Remember its not just getting what you pay for in cash.. but also what you bring to the table in manners.