I've had at the very least 10 guys forward me the list she sent out that her manager made for her listing me and many other awesome long time standing providers as bad unacceptable references... This is after she had barked up my tree plenty for refs...
Let's not play dumb or that she is a poor defenseless innocent little lamb.
Originally Posted by Lexxxy
Her manager?
Care to share this list? I wonder who made it or how circulated. I did hear she had help setting up appointments and screening..... and I saw her myself and had zero screening issues or warnings.
I wouldn't claim she's defenseless or a lamb in this, I can only attest to my dealings with her. My own impression was she was very nice personally - which in this business should be a given tho....
Still, as she was nothing but nice, even tho I haven't seen her in months and have no plans to repeat (its not my habit to repeat preferring a new experience whenever I get a chance to play) I still feel the need to stand up and almost defend my "YES" recommendation as it seems someone has an axe to grind....
As far as any medical boob issues there were comments made to the "why/need" in various ROS that maybe all can't see.... but she was very upfront with me during our appointment about what the deal was. I don't think she'd consider it a big secret, but that is based on my limited dealings with her and I could be wrong.
I still consider it semi personal in nature and think an open discussion about it to be in poor taste. If a hobbyist were considering seeing her and wanted some info and PM'd me I would share, but that would be a private chat not an open discussion. If another provider who I didn't know were to ask me out of the blue I would likely ignore the request as I'd question motive.
Onto the purpose of this thread - I am sure she's perfectly able to get whatever work done without a collection being made. I would pay stated rate only and tip as I saw fit, but not specifically to a "boobie jar". Hey I have to save up to buy things I want too lol
And just pure speculation on my part - have you ever saved for something, say a vacation, but a personal / family emergency arises? Then you have to prioritize what to do with those funds. Who knows what's going on in her world or why it hasn't been done yet? But its a personal decision and I certainly wouldn't debate it on the open board, even if allowed by the "rules".