Why have a eccie houston?

random soapboxer Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

These women don't need me "sticking" up for them. Just get some freaky fish's popcorn and enjoy the show

p.s. WTF are you licking on that avatar?

Me thinks sometimes smells wrong in Denmark. I feel the presents of a former tard in the op words.......new name but same troll feeding nonsense. Please continue. I have popcorn to pop.... Originally Posted by kinkyorca

Nah, tone is a little too incognizant for that.. trolls post to incite.. everyone. SOUNDS TO ME <-- personal opinion alert--- that it's one of a many random soapboxer who climbs not on that box for the greater good, but to be seen. Seen, and preferably above the fray. Bitches love dudes takes it upon themselves to stand up to the big bad wolf. I can hear the pussy in his inbox now. The message is vague and pretty common sense: we've been hearing variations since we were kids. He doesn't specify EXACTLY what things are over the line or "mean shit" as he says, so by interpretation he means the self proclaimed assholes who don't care.

He does though remind me of Dear John, who came up from the shadows to stick up for the damsels in distresses who posted only to get cunt punted. He railed, he raved, he started multiple threads and requested management, only to let his ass hang loose and prove to really be no "better" than Wakeup or anyone else he was complaining about. He just needed more provocation and posted on fewer threads. He might still be here and definitely would be much better off if he had sit his ass down somewhere and minded his own business or better yet governing his own behavior than making himself look like a fool by strapping on that cape and trying to play Capt Sav-a- Ho and Moral, the Dirty Cop. I'm not suggesting that to the OP in the least bit (I'm a live and let live kinda gal) but I find it interesting to note. Isn't it ironic, don't ya think???

These women don't need me "sticking" up for them. Originally Posted by u12b8

Well I mean duh, we know that already... So your intent was to put your pic next to hypocritical in the dictionary??

p.s. WTF are you licking on that avatar? Originally Posted by u12b8

Wouldn't you like to know...

why didn't you just ask in the first place?

U12B8, I really want your man pole, please come stuff my everything baby! Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

I read his response as an auto troll response. He asked me to spit, I asked if he swallowed, boys will be boys. No biggie, not discrediting to him in anyway, in fact and to the contrary, his post was, at it's heart, an intended to insult and discredit mine because he believed I was only a 2 month old member - no harm - no foul between either of us.


I did not mention your Intelligence Quotient at all, lack of comprehension does not specifically mean lack of intelligence. You did confess to having a lack of comprehension in your second post. Therefore my response was in fact, correct. You in fact, counter your own point with a counter point. Not good a good debate practice at all




So obviously, your scanning led to a lack of comprehension. I do not think you are dumb, this is not about your reading skills, nor wish to make you feel dismissed, I apologize if that is how I made you feel. I only want truth to be truth, that is all. Truth (my supposition) is you skimmed, made a post, went back and read, made another post.

as to other opposition, there have been others, and I've not said anything
ID, for example, didn’t agree, but he actually expressed an opinion though, plus who can say anything bad to anyone with a Calvin avatar (may he rest in peace) - to label one

I do still think you are missing the whole point still though and have gotten swept up in a side issue. I am not talking about the usual playground banter we toss around at one another. I was talking about the lady who posts in the coed and welcome forum and gets side swiped because she may not meet someone's ideal standard or seeming to charge more than the reader would prefer. Then guys Slam her.
Yes on internet boards, especially THIS board, you had better have thick skin.






Originally Posted by u12b8

Thank you for adding ALL that clarification to your initial short, dismissive, and condescending response. I guess you rethought your position and now we can have a conversation. I didn't tell you I lacked reading comprehension, I told you that I did not understand YOUR intention or point and asked you to narrow down what you had in mind when you posted your lecture, when you in the very next post did the same thing that your lesson to chill out on was about. I went back and reread your whole post right after you responded to L4B, because your response struck me as funny. I was looking for a haha, just kidding in there somewhere that would have shown that you were being sarcastic. You weren't. By the time I responded, I was fully aware of what you had posted. So instead of you saying "obviously you lack comprehension skills" you possibly could have explained your position so that one was clear on YOUR thought pattern. I am still lacking understanding on not what, but who, why and where your supposed boundaries from "boys will be boys" to "pure mean shit" lies. I wasn't trying to debate with you at all, merely observing and noting of the chronicles of life.

You brush your response to L4B off as jest, but it wasn't light-hearted though it was flat. Only you know for sure your intention and I can only form my own opinion based on what I see and already know about people. Fragile ego + superior attitude - tolerance + shaky proposition = I said some shit and if you hold it up to questioning there's something wrong with you. Assuming a member is a newbie and not knowing the culture of this board is not an insult. An insult would have been "sit down newbie your 2 months here means you don't know shit" or something along those lines. Mistaking a join date because someone is acting like this shit is brand new is not, at least in my opinion. He said, "spit it out already" probably because your original post was long, drawn out, and vague, with no concrete point, evidence, example, or solution in sight. We were on the same page with that one, hence the scanning. You perceived an offense from that, and replied ass chapped. Please show where in this thread where someone other than us 2 questioned your "authority" and you said nothing. I'll wait.

I also only want truth to be truth, and truth is without your help or anyone else's. Your truth isn't everyone's, and it isn't definitive. You're not making some great discovery, or teaching an abstract ethical principle; this same thread has been posted 1000 freaking times, and they all say basically the same shit no matter WHO writes them. Scan. It's like looking at the garbage collection schedule every day for a year... heard this shit before ad nauseum. The Houston board is pretty raw and you're probably not going to get greeted all happy shiny if you decide to post a thread asking other fucktards if you should come here or not so you can get some extra exposure. A series of ads in the market where you're considering should judge that for you, and asking other fucktards' their opinions will garner just that and it's probably not going to be too friendly. Those extra eyes and feedback is not free, they come at an expense. Everything does. Big whoop.

To finish, no hard feelings bro, you don't have to apologize to me, and though you were dismissive you don't have the juice to dismiss this one, maybe someone else but not this one, and it's all good. My feelings aren't hurt or even phased by random fucktards that I don't know, that don't pay my bills, and that are really non- factors in my life. Imagine that. Fucktards will be fucktards by your line of reasoning, but it has no bearing on anything but my perception or the "truth". You're right, I am missing the point, not of what you were saying, but why you feel like you were elevated enough to chide anyone on shit if you're not going to do better. Your ass, your choice though and life will go on thankfully.

Here's your virtual pat on the back so you can see me as a literate, functional member who "gets it". This thread isn't as pointless and even worse hypocritical as a counselor hitting the bottle at an AA meeting.. THIS is going to elicit some change around here.. Good job, sir.

It sounds great and perfectly reasonable. Like when people say they want "world peace".

Please point out the specific guidelines that could be used to implement this Eutopyian vision of Eccie you have in mind.

Then, please lay out in detail the exact criteria or interpretations for those guidelines that could be applied in a consistent fashion.

Then, consider all the other possible criteria and interpretations that could exist and ask yourself why yours is the correct one.

Then, taking that into account, bring it to the forum at large or even just the moderator staff sitewide and try to achieve consensus.

I anxiously await the results... Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

How about if you just enforce the first few?

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Will our moderators please consider cleaning the atmosphere. Originally Posted by u12b8

I cannot help it if you cannot comprehend English. Evidently you cannot. Originally Posted by u12b8

This appears to be a good place to begin ......

... "cleaning the atmosphere"!......

Nothing like some "self-cleaning"!

When are you leaving?

I was talking about the lady who posts in the coed and welcome forum and gets side swiped because she may not meet someone's ideal standard or seeming to charge more than the reader would prefer. Then guys Slam her. Originally Posted by u12b8

You obviously have an example in mind...what is it?

Build-A-Bear did it better, and more politely.

It sounds great and perfectly reasonable. Like when people say they want "world peace".

Please point out the specific guidelines that could be used to implement this Eutopyian vision of Eccie you have in mind.

Then, please lay out in detail the exact criteria or interpretations for those guidelines that could be applied in a consistent fashion.

Then, consider all the other possible criteria and interpretations that could exist and ask yourself why yours is the correct one.

Then, taking that into account, bring it to the forum at large or even just the moderator staff sitewide and try to achieve consensus.

I anxiously await the results... Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

How about if you just enforce the first few?

(The following guidelines are not listed in any order of importance or priority. Members are free to 'copy and paste' any part of these guidelines into other areas or into posts which may answer a question or address an issue brought up by another member)
....
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.... Originally Posted by Oralist

Excellent start, please proceed to Step 2.

These hateful and derogatory posts are countering that goal. Originally Posted by u12b8

I cannot help it if you cannot comprehend English. Evidently you cannot. No worries. Originally Posted by u12b8

I've been on eccie longer than you muffin. Originally Posted by u12b8

OP your shit is awful weak. You start a thread complaining about insults and then you hand out a bunch of them.

BTW what was your previous handle here?

OP your shit is awful weak.


BTW what was your previous handle here? Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

And why on Earth did he return?

i smell burnt bread made in a country of cheese eating surrender monkeys....ils......has the prodigal son returned? perhaps he also wants a new 2016 ban-appaloosa t-shirt.

...Lot's of words. .. Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

When a woman says this many words to me, I just shut up and apologize. "I was wrong, please forgive me."

Build-A-Bear did it better, and more politely. Originally Posted by chicagoboy

Built-A-Whore... interesting concept.