Ignoring a reference request

Everyone on here has gotten a no from a provider at one time or another. What I can't understand is why some guys take it personally. It's like when they have been denied something they want it all the more. She's gonna see who she wants to see. Just move on. Originally Posted by Perfect Gentleman

I have to disagree. I have never gotten a no. I also firmly believe in only giving out minimal info to be screened. I have a p411 account and that has satisfied almost every non-local provider I have seen. As for local providers, I think most of them know us guys on here who post regularly. We have a vested interest in treating them well, and we don't want to be trashed, just as they don't either.

Everyone on here has gotten a no from a provider at one time or another. What I can't understand is why some guys take it personally. It's like when they have been denied something they want it all the more. She's gonna see who she wants to see. Just move on. Originally Posted by Perfect Gentleman

good point, i am guilty, and did not quite see it till u stated it plainly. Thanks.

We have a vested interest in treating them well, and we don't want to be trashed, just as they don't either. Originally Posted by GP

Obviously not all men think alike..

Obviously not all men think alike.. Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth

I think that was a compliment? LOL

Obviously not all men think alike.. Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth

There are leg men.
There are boob men.
There are butt men.
There are foot men.

Then there is me, a tainted man.

Nope we do not thinck alike.