Providers that do the work vs providers that let dude do the work?

Good job ladies, this thread is getting me all fired up! Lol

It varies greatly from session to session for me. Sometimes I do prefer to be catered to but sometimes when the provider seems really into it and starts cumming, I just can't help myself. I'm going for gold! Her cumming is just as satisfying to me as cumming myself! Had a session not too long ago with a very orgasmic provider and holy fuck, I just didn't want to stop! One of my best sessions ever. Almost wanted a tip myself! Lol

i thought that's why mirrors were invented!!?, Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Mirrors can be very fun since we are visually stimulated, I find they are a big turn on for both me and my partner. That's why I have a huge floor to ceiling mirror in my bedroom next to my bed and another at the head of the bed.

Unfortunately, in this instance, I don't think they would have helped.

You are more than welcome to come over and watch porn on my flat screen mirrors anytime you like though and see what you think.

I love it when we thrust in unison- all about thrusting and counter thrusting into the thrust) Even when I suck cock and particularly when I get facefucked hard it is so hot thrusting together))))) a great facefuck and all fucking is about moving forcefully together to create all that wonderful friction which makes both of us cum hard)))) Originally Posted by Teagenluv

Agreed! its all about the rhythm and chemistry you can create together. All of my favorite sessions were the ones with the perfect back and forth rythym and thrusting its just so fucking passionate and hot when youre in tune with eachother.

Agreed! its all about the rhythm and chemistry you can create together. All of my favorite sessions were the ones with the perfect back and forth rythym and thrusting its just so fucking passionate and hot when youre in tune with eachother. Originally Posted by AshleyKay of Dallas

And I think the best way to do that is not to treat the lady you're paying to be pleased. Of course you are, but if you treat the situation like a date with a girl that wants you to please her too, you are more likely to have a really hot session.

On occasion you will encounter a burned out hooker. Nothing can done with that. I would hope, there are more ladies that do still enjoy their job than there are that dont. If you try to please them, they will feed of that vibe and give you an amazing time.

+1, but to me there are two different things, and 'who does the work' could be different for each thing:
The best would be to first be pursued. Guys usually have to pursue in RL, so being pursued feels good and builds things. I get it, that's role play, but a little extra $ is worth it to me to be pursued.
Once seduced tho, the get together seems like it would be both doing the work. Have to admit tho, my ideal date is she leads the way here too. But we're both workin it"

And I think the best way to do that is not to treat the lady you're paying to be pleased. Of course you are, but if you treat the situation like a date with a girl that wants you to please her too, you are more likely to have a really hot session.

On occasion you will encounter a burned out hooker. Nothing can done with that. I would hope, there are more ladies that do still enjoy their job than there are that dont. If you try to please them, they will feed of that vibe and give you an amazing time. Originally Posted by grean

Too many burned out ladies still in the game...

When I start feeling that way...i just take a couple of days off from visiting with clients..its unfair to those spending their hard earned cash if you can't offer them the experience they deserve and are seeking...

Also... ladies....as long as you only do the services you actually really enjoy... you'll continue to enjoy the hobby and have fun pleasing your clients...

So for me in the real world I work way too much, raise my kids, pay way too many bills, mow the lawn, blah blah blah.

In fantasy land I want to be taken care of, pampered, and honestly not do much of the work.
A good massage, a good BBBJ, and a good cowgirl session is what makes me want to hobby...you know things all about me lol. For me there isn't anything much better than a girl on top, dfk, kissing my neck and chest and acting like she's all about making me happy.

I also like a little bit of a dominant woman as this seems to always work out better for me.

Many times, I'm just too long legged for a good cg ride.
I like the "husky" sized men for that kind of session.

I end up with a lot of standing over the bed, doggie, mish (flexible too, thank goodness I've still got that going for me - and these big ol titties get a good jiggle going. LOL

I like it when the guy switches it up with a one of my legs in the air and one on the bed between his thighs.

There's something really hot about a girl who takes charge of herself, so to speak, like she's so horny she's got to have it. Like she's going to get hers no matter what it takes and wants your help getting there.

If I do all the work it seems pointless. I don't need to work my ass off for an hour while someone lays there and fake moans. Whoop-di-fucking-do! And I'm paying for the privilege! But when a girl is really into sex it's like flying!