But how do YOU CONTROL what OTHER PEOPLE DO??????
All YOU CAN DO IS PROTECT YOURSELF!!!!!!
You have this illusion that you know what people do? Especially in their private life? You as a MOD have some secret tracking device? How do you know your SO isn't cheating (not your specifically(rhetorical)) and barebacking every valet from NOLA to Baton Rouge? You can't know, you have to trust and so the only way of protecting yourself is to protect yourself, cause that is the only thing you can control.
These are just WITCH HUNTS.....with no basis in fact...CAUSE NONE OF THESE PEOPLE WERE THERE. Originally Posted by disilene
Of course no one has ever caught anything from a cheating SO......right? LOOOOLLLL
That reference was meant to take the extreme case and point out that even in such a safe environment of a relationship, you still can't control the other person's actions.
You completely missed the whole point. Originally Posted by disilene
I didn't miss anything. Sex workers will be fucking a lot more random people than the typical person. No, you can't control what other people do, but the chances of your SO barebacking random strangers on a regular basis is far less than people in the sex industry. Anybody who barebacks a random stranger has a greater chance of getting an STD. There is no trust among strangers. Originally Posted by pornodave69You missed the point......again. Maybe I can draw you a map, but I lost my crayons.
I've asked the same question too. Why is bareback or raw dog such taboo on here, but people thumb their noses at CBJs ? Also, they'll stick their tongues in a chick's pussy to eat her, but she's trash for taking your raw dick ? Just monumentally hypocritical to me. Originally Posted by excitedatthedoorJust personal preference for me. The odds are FAR more favorable of you NOT catching something BBJ than they are for BBFS from what I've heard and read over the years. I've been getting BBJs for around twenty years now and I get physicals and blood work semi-regularly and have a totally clean bill of health.
Also, they'll stick their tongues in a chick's pussy to eat her, but she's trash for taking your raw dick ? Just monumentally hypocritical to me. Originally Posted by excitedatthedoorYou just gave the best reason I can think off, why I do NOT want providers to do BBFS. Some of us like DATY, but without getting "left overs" from the previous session..