I don't think the issue is "provider appreciation," but just appreciation in general. I'm taking the provider aspect out of this. Providers, just like any of us, are more than what they do for a living. We are all people with personalities, ambitions and interests outside of this hobby, and this thread is just a reminder that we are all more than others sometimes see. I would say to the OP, as well as the other ladies on the board, you're all beautiful and appreciated as the women you are.
Consider this post a hug. No strings attached.