We've been hearing that in Austin for a while now. But I think some hobbyists fail to realize that not every provider is aiming to see as many men as possible. Several of us in the $300+ range ended up at that price point because we were simply overwhelmed with business when our donations were lower. I found myself in that situation, and gradually increased my rate until I felt comfortable with the number of requests I was receiving versus the number of sessions I wanted to book in a week.
Originally Posted by Natalie Reign
Good point. AND, while I haven't seen you, YET, the reviews all seem to say the time is worth the money. Ask yourselevs, ladies, if you were getting reviews that said "nice, but not at that price", wouldn't that tell you something?
At the end of the day, a provider is still a person, and if she wants to live a happy, productive life, she has to make an informed decision about how much she can reasonably give of herself, and what that service is worth to her. If a lady thinks to herself, "I would feel terrible about myself if I accepted $150/hour," but feels the risks and rewards of providing are balanced at $200/hour, then she shouldn't really be charging $150/hour, no matter what any hobbyist says. A provider deciding she will never drop below a certain rate isn't much different than a hobbyist deciding he will never pay more than a certain rate. Personal preference all around.
Originally Posted by Natalie Reign
I have told people this in a number of environments. Never negotiate yourself downward. You know what your time is worth both to you and in the market you are dealing with. You're not selling a car, you're selling yourself. By that I mean what ever job, provider, programmer, banker. If you feel like you're worth $300, don't let a guy say "how about $250?" If you get a lot of those, maybe YOU should think about it, but don't do it on the fly.
If a provider is asking a certain rate, and still has enough business to live the lifestyle she desires, then she must be doing something right. We can't be all things to all people. And even if we could, when would we have time for ourselves?
Originally Posted by Natalie Reign
An M-B CL has one target. A Toyota Versa has another. If you're going to be a Versa, you can't price like a CL. And if you're a CL, you're doing yourself a disservice to ask for Versa pricing. And even more so to be bargained down to there.
PS - Nice to see you posting in Austin, Naomi. xoxo
Originally Posted by Natalie Reign