I've just figured out why I like perusing Backpage escorts

Some of the ladies on here are college age or may even have kids in college.
Some guys are in college themselves.
Can you imagine the drama that would cause if a classmate saw the lady's face and spread it around campus what she does? Or tell a friend that his mom's on here?
And sometimes it might be because of a RW job and she needs to be discreet, just like guys need discretion.

Of course, that's the worst case scenario. And if we have teachers, they know they have an ethical clause in their contracts and/or license. No problem, they SHOULD hide their faces.

But the other scenario you offer is WAY unlikely. What kind of an asshole gets on Eccie to look for girls, then decides to take up the mantle of modesty and propriety to report her? I'm not buying it. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Sir, you might be sincere, but you are clueless about the world.

Some well experienced ladies have told you why--it is an issue of safety and security. Let's look at just a few things that could go wrong if a lady shows her face.

--Angry, stalking Ex discovers she is now living in Austin after she fled the abusive pig in XXX city. He now knows where to come stalk her. (Happened to the roommate of a lady I saw a few times, and the guy tracked her down and killed her).

--Angry Ex-, or parents, or .... use her web site and photo against her is divorce hearings or child custody hearings. This happens a lot. One lady I know very well lost her two kids last year because her mom & aunt printed her web pictures with face and used them to have her declared an unfit mom.

--There are a lot of jobs besides teaching where if this moonlighting job were to become known it would cause problems. Maybe termination, maybe harassment by boss/co-workers.

--Housing. Plenty of moralistic landlords would use it as reason to evict.

--Some hotels (Mormon owned Marriott chain seems particularly susceptible) will deny rooms or call LE if they recognize a lady from her pictures. Some sick ones do search sites like this to see who posts that they are coming to town and put photos at the check in desk.

--Once on the web, pictures never leave. In the future, after a lady is retired, she might not want her photos there for her then-spouse or kids or in-laws to find.


So, in case you were honestly ignorant, there are some real world reasons.

I'll get you a signed copy, if you're interested. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Please do not private message me again asking if I want your dick pics! I already made it clear I have no interest in what your trying to show!

Faces! The girls there almost always show their faces and providers here largely do not. Why is that? What is the big aversion to showing us one of your BEST features? Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Privacy is the best call. No one wants their face shown as you can google a provider or any name like for example "Amy," "Austin," etc and what happens, you can see their either photos or whatever. Escorts use alias, but once their face is shown and someone outside of the provider's secret life sees it, then it because a security problem for her and her other life.

Please do not private message me again asking if I want your dick pics! I already made it clear I have no interest in what your trying to show! Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Says the girl with a dick in her mouth!

Why thank you Captain Obvious!! OMG!!! A Hooker with a dick in her mouth!! ALERT THE MEDIA!!! Of course its a dick in my mouth thats kinda the point of the job. However sending me a private message begging me to give you my email so you can send me your unsolicited dick picture is bullshit.

LMAO

Why thank you Captain Obvious!! OMG!!! A Hooker with a dick in her mouth!! ALERT THE MEDIA!!! Of course its a dick in my mouth thats kinda the point of the job. However sending me a private message begging me to give you my email so you can send me your unsolicited dick picture is bullshit. Originally Posted by Britttany_love

sending me a private message begging me to give you my email so you can send me your unsolicited dick picture is bullshit. Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Whoa, Nelly. I didn't BEG you for shit. I didn't ASK you for shit. I didn't even HINT for shit. On the contrary, your post, "You're kidding right?" gave me the impression that you were calling my bluff to send a dick-pic. I was prepared to put my "money where my mouth was" if you were calling me out. I don't think you are interested in the least in a picture of my cock, or anyone else's, but you are clearly into trying to embarrass other people.

Your post(s) are misrepresenting our private conversation to a public audience. I tried to pay you a compliment in this very thread, before you tried to publicly humiliate me. After seeing it, I sent another PM to you explaining my confusion at your offense and then apologizing, BUT you failed to mention that when you tried to shame a second time. I wish I could take back my compliment of you; you're not my friend anymore.

I'll get you a signed copy, if you're interested. Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

No im good Originally Posted by Britttany_love

I told you here that I was not interested. You embarrased yourself sir. If you are humiliated or embarassed you did that all on your own by posting this thread. You waited and hour after my post to send me a message asking again if I wanted you dick pic and to send my email adrress. I did not reply to you what so ever. You then private messaged me again saying I thought you wanted to see it.. etc. I again did not respond to you. There was no conversation what so ever as I never responded back to your communication. I called you out because you obviously didnt understand my disinterest and "No" when I said so in my comment to you the first time yet you had to message me twice about it. You would think you would have understood that by me not responding to your intial private communication that I was not interested yet you reached out and sent another later. You were called out because you obviously dont know what the word "No" means. I have both messages where you were asking for my email so you could send me dick pics.. I can forward them back to you highlighted for clarification!

DickMouth, I haven't embarrassed myself (yet). I'm not sure if there was a delay in the sending or the posting, but I'm certain I wasn't sitting in front of ECCIE all night waiting for your response! I hurriedly and drunkenly checked in a few times over a 7-hour period, but while I was having real-world fun, you were obviously obsessing over what was intended to be playful banter.

So, I've now apologized publicly and privately but you continue to drive home your offense or your attempt to shame me. Have fun with that; I'm not interested.

Dickmouth?? Classy! I like Dick in MY Mouth!?!?. . Oh yes! I'll excuse your childish temper tantrum because you know u fucked up. Grow up boy! You fucked up, got called out for it and have now gone as low as to throw name calling in the mix. Obsessing over you? No honey thats why I wasnt on eccie to respond til 1 pm this afternoon, but Im glad that you hurriedly and drunkenly checked in to see what was up with me though. No apology needed next time when someone says "No" listen you will save yourself some embarrassment.

Right...What I was trying to say was, I sent you the PM, BEFORE your "No, I'm good post." You may not have READ it until after, in which case, I agree, that would be skeezy. But I'm all growed-up, and I know what NO means.

So, once again, I've tried to make amends, and you keep trying to fight. But, yes, calling you DickMouth wasn't classy. I'm sure Captain Obvious will agree with you that name calling is childish.

Well thanks for clarifying that you did infact randomly solict your dick picture to me over the pm system with out my asking you to do so.

Just so you know
Captain Obvious*is a name invoked in conversation to draw attention to a*self-evident*fact. The phrase uses "captain" in the sense of a comicbook*super-heroes. Somebody might say "Thank you, Captain Obvious!" to sarcastically thank someone who had just stated something self-evident.

Captain Obvious

Saying something that is obvious, that didn't need to be said, and someone pointing out, wow, well done. Another comon term linked to this is also 'No Shit Sherlock!'

Heres some more information on captain obvious if you need help:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...s&defid=161444

That sir is not an insult.. dickmouth is but since I enjoy it its whatever.

No...it was name calling. We all understand what it means, and why you used it. It wasn't out of love and kindness.

And I don't know if I am not saying this correctly or if you are not understanding, or trying not to understand, but I have attempted to explain that I was responding to your post (though, clearly I misunderstood your sarcastic disgust for playfully calling me out).

So, whatever.

Name calling... nope Captain obvious is not an insult. Its a quick witted phrase and saying thats been used for many years by people calling out someone for stating something that is blatantly obvious. Please do some research. Its not meant to be warm and fuzzy... obviously!

There was nothing playful what so ever in my responses on the thread. You wanted to show providers your dick and you got butt hurt because I didnt want to see it. Do you really think providers want to see a picture of your cock.. like really? I dont pay my bills with the dick pictures of strangers. Simple as that. Please show me anywhere that I playfully told you to show me it?? Show me a response to both of your private messages??Exactly no where! Quit fooling yourself!