I think suggesting Julius45 should find another hobby after this sort of post is a bit harsh, give him pointers not a bashing. If no one teaches you the delicate etiquettes of hobbying, no one would ever learn. He made several mistakes, explain the why certain questions are not asked, do your research, etc... I think TT must be a stand-up provider considering she saw him and is willing to try to make it right by seeing him again, that's maturity no matter how you cut it!
Originally Posted by sinep1
When did she see him? Did I miss something?
As far as teaching him the "delicate etiquettes"....you must not have read the converstation before it was removed. There is little to no hope for this guy....it's just who he is.